Guys, Body count and what amount matters?

Ok so I've seen a lot of ideas about body count and how the amount of men a women sleeps with matters.. I know some want virgins but it's not realistic for a lot of women. So in terms of numbers what is ok and what is an automatic no. If it matters my number is 5, I have had friends who lost count and some who had 2.
no more then 10
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no more then 25
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50-100?
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  • You should realize that your age matters, as well as the pattern.

    If you are 15 and your number is 5, that is a horrible sign. If you are 50 and your number is 5, that is quite unremarkable.

    If you are 50 years old, married your first love, divorced 2 years ago, and had sex with 9 guys in the past 2 years, your number is 10 that would concern most guys. If you are 50 years old, had sex with 10 guys, married #10 when you were 20, divorced him two years ago, and have not been sexually active since then, your number is 10 and most guys would be quite unconcerned.

    So it is not just your number. It is whether the pattern shows that you approach sex as a recreational matter unconnected with love or whether you think sex is more than just something you do with a stranger because there's nothing good on Netflix. Most guys who are looking for a relationship don't want to get into a sexual relationship and then find that it was just for fun for you.

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  • I basically don't care how many guys you've been with, but it should be a reasonable number. What I mean is that I don't want to have to wonder about the quality of men you've been with before me. If you work as a Starbucks barista, I would probably think less of you if you've been with more than 50 guys, just because that's not really a sexy job, and even if it was a sexy job; Starbucks clientele isn't exactly high rent.

    • fair but what's the link between that and a starbucks barista? so if I had a better job it wouldn't matter as much?

    • No, it has nothing to do with the amount of money you bring in. The link is that the job isn't conducive to hooking up and having sex with people, so it doesn't necessarily make sense that you would be hooking up a lot. As a general rule, men don't care what kind of employment a woman has. It is far more important that she is happy, no matter what she's doing.

    • so men won't care that I wouldn't make much?

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  • 10 is already going overboard - 5 is still cool though..

  • An automatic no for me is a virgin, I want my partner to be experienced.

    • how much is too much?

    • There isn't too much in my case, only too low.

    • @asker the number of men on earth is too big a number. Less than that is ok with me.

  • Really they should be a box that says don’t really care.

    I am in the just not worried category.

    if she wants to tell me she ca, I won’t ask.

    if she says 5 I will believe her, if it’s a 100 then same it’s fine.

  • Yes, it matters (to an extent) because it says a lot about someone, especially if their "body count" is disproportionate to their age.

    I don't really expect any particular woman past college age to be a virgin (though it can be a testament to their self-worth and values if they are), but I can say without a doubt that a woman who has slept with a different guy every other week of the year is not the one for me.

  • A gentleman wouldn’t ask.

  • 25?
    50?
    100?

    I wouldn't have touched these women for all the money in the world.

    • oh so what would be your range?

  • Who cares? Most "MEN" don't..."BOYS" care about that kind of shit

  • I don't think it really matters if the number is not unreasonably high. I would say 12. A lot of partners might mean inability to commit to a relationship.

  • At 18, it should be 0, and 25, 0-1, at 30, 0-2, and 35, 0-3.

    I would prefer a virgin, but if she had a few serious partners that didn't work out, and none resulted in kids or stds, and she wasn't the problem, then I wouldn't hold it against her.

    The numbers you mentioned are only possible by sluts, I have no interest in sluts.

    • Yeah.. so you're insinuating we're all sluts? ok then. You could have stated your preference without that.

    • "we're all?" lmfao sorry but most people never reach a body count of 10 in there entire life, let alone 25 XD yes, of course 25-100 is slutty.

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  • Women with high body counts are awesome friends.

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