Body shape doesn't matter for sexuality?

Question

Confidence is the key to sexuality. Whats your thoughts?

jshm2 · Accepted Answer

That's the sort of shit a toothpick girl with no tits, ass, charm or personality would say.

Confidence is having the cojones to be nonchalant about what may go wrong. That's all. It's the most useless of attributes. You can be as confident as you like, a fired bullet isn't going to bounce off your skull.

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

"Confidence is the key to sexuality."

No, disagree. Just spend a few minutes in the "body positivity" section of Instagram.
Also, I personally hate ego. I don't want a woman who is confident. I want a woman with humility. Humility is sexy to *me!*

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It matters if it matters. Some guys like skinny girls and some guys like bigger girls. If you manage to change your shape, you will gain a new audience, and lose the old audience. You can get all the dick you want just the way you are.

LingyRolls · Accepted Answer

This is somewhat true. The body has to be there though. But the confidence is intoxicating tbh. Sadly most men overlook the confidence portion and don't realize how hot they could be if they just will it into being basically lol

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I'm with @exitseven. A confident fat girl is still a fat girl and I'm just not aroused by that.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yeah confidence can really pull it off where looks and body type would not on their own. seen it loads of times i am very much attracted to the confidence side of things

Humbletallguy6ft6 · Answer

I prefer skinny... lean... fit... petite.. or slim women... they're awesome in bed and great to be seen with in public during daylight.

IMuser · Answer

Can you deny your instincts which yearn for someone physically suitable?

Berethor · Answer

Nope, men and women are different, most men prefer good looks over confidence.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Confidence will always be more important in the long run, but body shape is important in the first stages of attraction. Not saying what body type as everyone finds different body shapes attractive.

slatyb · Answer

I think it’s being open-minded and paying attention to the other person.

Citizenkirk · Answer

It is a factor. Biodiversity is a factor. Confidence works for me, as it does a lot of men and women. Some are intimidated by it. Their loss. I like a confident woman who isn't full of herself.