Bored in the Bedroom: Get a Fetish!

After being with a loving and committed partner for a long while, many people get what's been called the '7-year itch', prolonged 'spring fever' or simply just boredom and restlessless that manifests in the bedroom.

You see the cliches in media about couples 'spicing up' their sex life by going to a sex shop, using toys or even playing roles. But if that doesn't work it's possible there are more deep seated desires at play that might want to come out. Many fetishists feel shy or inhibited about communicating their desires publicly as many fetishes are related not to a person but more to an object. This can seem strange to most who only particpate in vanilla sex.

There are so many dating sites nowadays popping up online that are dedicated to niche dating, particularly to sexual fetishes. What's a fetish? Here is the classic definition:

fetish
noun
A form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.
"a man with a fetish for surgical masks"
synonyms: fixation, sexual fixation, obsession, compulsion, mania; More
an excessive and irrational devotion or commitment to a particular thing.
"men will never understand a woman's fetish for shoes and handbags"

Have you every been with someone who's had a fetish? I particularly love when a man caresses and gives special attention to my feet, but I've never been with a foot-worshipper, though sometimes the idea sounds thrilling.

Here are some major fetishes, which one would you try?

Foot Fetish

Bored in the Bedroom: Get a Fetish!

Pantyhose and Panties Fetish

Bored in the Bedroom: Get a Fetish!

Leather/Pleather Fetish

Bored in the Bedroom: Get a Fetish!

BDSM Fetishes

Bored in the Bedroom: Get a Fetish!

Fat/BBW Fetish

Bored in the Bedroom: Get a Fetish!

Plastic or Blow-up Doll Fetish

Bored in the Bedroom: Get a Fetish!

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  • We tried pegging because she being bi missed being in that position. She surprised me with it one day and I was very scared but I went through with it for her and after I got into it I really loved it. But I haven't been able to get an erection since. I'm super horny all the time as a result and so I'm stuck getting it in the butt. Sometimes getting kinky can have unexpected results

  • I have to say only the pantyhose one looks desirable to me.

    • If you don't mind me asking what ones would you like?

  • Vampire role play.

  • I have a bdsm, foot and pee fetish. Bdsm won't be a fetish pretty soon though