Boyfriend admitted my blowjobs make me IRREPLACEABLE?

[Anonymous]

I’m really really good at it and enjoy doing it. It seems that my blowjobs are keeping him obsessed with me. I can’t seem to break up with him because of it I assume. Are blowjobs important to you and do they really make someone irreplaceable?

[BeyondCuriosity]

I don't think anything makes anyone irreplaceable, but blowjobs are a really big deal.

[COMMODOREII]

So in other words you have him where you want him. 😂

[Asker]

Yes, sir.

[SueShe]

It is sad that a relation stays upright just because of one sexual act.

The relation could be as toxic as possible but because one person is good at perform sexually, the partner is willing to lower him/herself to be misused by the toxic person just because of one specific sexual act.

I am not insinuating that it is the case in your relation but it shows me one specific thing in our society.

People are willing to put sex above anything else in a relation, even if this relation is slowly destroying them but because they believe that sex is that good, they are oblivious to the important things in a relation, those that make up 99% of the relation outside of sex.

I personally would never ever allow myself to lose my self esteem for sex. Never!

[Asker]

You’re a virgin, aren’t you?

[Okaywhateverbyebye]

What are you even on about

[Nawlins34]

They are extremely important to me, which is why I made sure to have that in my fiancee. but if that were the best thing about my woman, she wouldn't be my woman.

As much as I love sex in general, I need to love that WOMAN - her personality, character, etc.

Blowjobs are by-products to me and if her main attraction is a by-product? I pass.

I'm not saying that to insult you. I'm concerned FOR you because your boyfriend has probably spent more time with you in non-sexual ways vs. sexual ways. And the best thing he can think about you is your blowjob skills? That's an insult from him in my opinion.

I'm VERY satisfied with her oral skills, but if she lost the ability to do so? I'm with her for life.

If you lost your oral skills today, how long is he staying?

See the difference? So, I'm concerned for you in that particular relationship.

But I've answered your question, be safe and have fun

[Asker]

Thanks for your concern, but I am not worried about my blowjobs being the best quality about me. My boyfriend is obsessed with the person that I am and he finds me irreplaceable (because I am). The oral skills deepen his obsession for me.

[virtue2332]

A great blow job is an amazing thing. If one person doesn't come to mind and immediately arrouse you when you think of the word blow job. You probably have never had someone put it down and give you amazing head. Just know how to return the favor and remember practice makes perfect. To be able to command someone's body with your tongue mouth.

[Apple1996]

It definitely is a irreplaceable skill. My man says the same thing about me😝
If you want too just break up with him tho. Dont stay with someone just because they depend on you for your skills in bed.

[michael1469]

So thats my problem... damn it.

[Asker]

I’m not there for him to suck him off lol it just really happens to be something he likes

[Secret6620]

This question is fantastic! Ahahahaha 🤣🙈! You suck that cock. And suck it good ahahahaha 😆🤦!!! This is perfect! You're perfect 👏👏👏👏 This is like the best question ever 😘

[Asker]

Thanks babe 💋💖

[LiamSawyer]

I'd love to experience a blow job that truly is that good!

[Dargil]

Yes, a truly skilled blow job will strongly tip the scale in a girl's favor. They are girl power.

[AlexanderAnttila]

I'm sure your skill in it makes you all the more lovely to him, though I'd find it sad to be honest if that was all that mattered to him for you to be irreplaceable.

[Asker]

He has told me the other things he loves about me including my blowjob skills.

[AlexanderAnttila]

Then good on you!

[Natehunter199]

If i was getting blowjobs. It would be pretty hard to give that up. But since im not getting any blowjobs or even sex for that fact. The wife can go but the dog stays. Lol.

[Asker]

Hahahaha that’s funny

[Asker]

😄😄

[Natehunter199]

At least someone thinks it is. Sad thing is it is true.

[Asker]

You should find someone who will satisfy your needs.

[Natehunter199]

Pretty had to find a girl that likes to suck dick. Easy for you about 85 percent of men like to eat pussy. I dont know a guy alive if a woman asked them to eat their pussy that they would turn it down.

[Asker]

Then you gotta find that one person that wants to suck yours. If the woman loves you, she’ll do it for you.

[Natehunter199]

And if they say they love you and never do it then?

[Asker]

Then you gotta make that choice whether you want to give it up or find someone else, who will.

[Ripper_E]

Blowjobs are not something that I ask for or expect. It's not because I don't like them. I really do, but I'd much rather give than receive. If I get a blowjob it's because she wants to give me one. If I'm with a woman who is really good at it, that's great, but I'll enjoy the blowjob no matter what. What would make her irreplaceable is my feelings for her, not a blowjob.

[Asker]

Not any blowjob, but the BEST bj.

[Ripper_E]

Doesn't matter how good it is. The second a blowjob is more important than her, our relationship is over.

[Asker]

What if she’s perfect AND she gives the best bj. Sums us up.

[Ripper_E]

The best bj is a bonus, but would never be more important than her. I'd enjoy her bjs but never forget that her bjs are not the reason I'm with her.

[Asker]

You’re not really the brightest, are you? Clearly people know that a blowjob or oral sex in general is a bonus. A perfect blowjob has weight when the woman is already perfect in other aspects.

[Ripper_E]

I don't give a fuck how good her blowjobs are. I either want to be with her or I don't. They do not make her irreplaceable. I already answered your question. If you want me to answer it a certain way, you're not going to get it. I've given you my answer. If you feel I'm not bright, then sorry, but it doesn't take much to understand what I just told you and you still haven't gotten it.

[Asker]

Next time give a straight forward reply.

[Ripper_E]

"Doesn't matter how good it is. The second a blowjob is more important than her, our relationship is over." I said it right there "The best bj is a bonus, but would never be more important than her. I'd enjoy her bjs but never forget that her bjs are not the reason I'm with her." Once again saying I don't care how good they are, I'm with her for her and her blowjobs are not what make her irreplaceable. Not my fault if you need every bit of it spelled out

[Asker]

You sound so bitter LOL calm down.

[dutch69lover]

Yes they are irreplaceable... I went through a 10 year stretch once not finding a woman that was able to blow me off completely. Then when I found that one again it was like Niagra Falls erupted from me

[Asker]

Yeah!!

[AmeerX]

I think you should be happy

[drayday4]

Good head is impossible to find honestly impossible to find

[Asker]

He won’t, he’ll beg for them

[Wise4myage]

Hey, that's an awesome talent to have, lol. But if you want to break up with him, then you shouldn't let that get in your way because there are more guys out there who would love to experience your skills, hehe.

[DreamCatchcer]

Blowjobs are important in a sexual relationships.

As a female, is getting oral sex important to you? Most girls enjoy it immensely.

[Asker]

It’s important because it shows effort

[Gedaria]

It makes a nice change to have someone enjoy cock...

[Dave31989]

Do you not like him anymore?

[Asker]

Why?

[Dave31989]

You made it sound like you don't

[Asker]

I tried ending things with him a few times now

[Dave31989]

If you don't like him. YOU GOTTA END IT CUT OFF ALL TIES TO HIM And if he persists, it's harassment, and you can get the cops involved

[Asker]

He begs and pleads and I give in and take him back

[Dave31989]

You gotta stop

[Dave31989]

He's poison for you

[Asker]

I know but it’s hard when he cries about it

[Dave31989]

You're the one who wants out fuck him, right?

[Asker]

Yes I should worry about myself first, but why do I feel like I’m abandoning him?

[Dave31989]

Because that's exactly what it is you don't want to be with him anymore, right? so, you're leaving him. good riddance

[Asker]

Yes but it’s not the same as leaving someone. Abandoning someone who is scared of it, is the worst feeling

[Dave31989]

no, leaving, IS abandoning

[Asker]

You’re so helpful tbh

[Dave31989]

thanks

[Asker]

Why is he being so desperate for me?

[Asker]

I’m scared that he might hurt himself because of it

[Dave31989]

if he does, who cares, right?

[Asker]

What? No

[Asker]

That’s not right

[Dave31989]

no, it is

[Asker]

How would you feel?

[Dave31989]

i would get over it, but, i would accept it

[Asker]

It will break your heart

[Asker]

It’s a normal human response right

[Dave31989]

no, if a girl doesn't want me anymore FUCK HER

[Asker]

That’s not really his thinking about being with me

[Dave31989]

yeah, like i said, you just need to leave him. what he does after that, isn't your problem. if he continues to harrass you, get the cops involved

[Asker]

He’s irritating me lately. I’m angry enough to be able to use it as fuel to fuck him off

[Dave31989]

then do it already jesus fucking christ

[Asker]

I am initiating ghosting him now.

[Dave31989]

good

[Asker]

I’ll put the focus on myself. Thank you 💖

[In_Trance]

uughh... that's so douchey

[Valnac]

Why are you overthinking it.
Accept what he said and enjoy it.

[REDHOTLINE]

Yes its makes you irreplaceable