BOYFRIEND ALWAYS HORNY FOR ME?

Question

Is it normal and healthy for my boyfriend to be hard around me ALL THE TIME. He says it’s something that’s never happened with any of his previous partners before and he looks at it as a very very good thing. But is it?

Sensmind · Accepted Answer

Sounds like the honeymoon phase of a new relationship , perfectly normal - It could be that this is the first relationship that felt right to him

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

It sounds like he has strong feelings for you and finds you irresistable. Don't you want him to be crazy about you?

lostbird07 · Accepted Answer

Its a good thing but make sure its not only because your hot but also because he likes you :)

Secret6620 · Accepted Answer

This is normal and common at that age... Especially when there is an abundance of energy 🎀

AustinMan · Answer

Do you love sex as much as he does?

MsgtDixon · Answer

I think you need to ask yourself if it's something you want in a relationship? Or if is it something you're encouraging?

Reaperbot666 · Answer

if you enjoy it and you like having sex with him whenever possible. then yes its a good thing that he finds you sexually attractive. just hope he also finds you mentally attractive as well.

ANDYB88 · Answer

I was in a relationship like this for just over 5 years-there were two things I learned and would pass on:

1-He can’t start expecting you to ‘sort him out’ every time

2-You can’t blame/shame/mock him for being like this.

As long as you’re both following those kind of rules then it’s perfectly ok, although I get that it can also be frustrating for both of yours. By working on acceptance you’ll be fine - I hate to say it but all those comments about ‘it’ll pass’ etc may very well be wrong - my last relationship this was an issue for me literally every single day for 5 years. Even when I had flu it still happened and even she was shocked about it but it’s just the way he is. Like you say - it happens when he greets you. I’ve been in that situation literally over 1,000 times. He fancies you desperately so be proud and be kind as I’m sure you are and try not to make him feel embarrassed about it because that will drive a wedge between you. Good luck and have fun!!