Boyfriend always refers back to SEX?

[Anonymous]

He’s always talking to me about it and every conversations and text turns to sex and he’s always saying that he misses “my pussy” and what his cock misses me when we see each other after a few weeks. Is this normal? Yes he has a high sex drive and we’ve been together for 1.7 years and it’s been that for us since the beginning. HELP!!

[SueShe]

No, that is not normal at all.

What he does is just to objectify you and does not see the person behind the genitals. It is a very toxic behavior of a person that is not in control of his libido. It is actually sad that all he sees in you are your sexual organs.

He desperately needs to see a specialist that can hopefully help him with his problem.

It is also a potential dangerous situation for your relation because if he cannot control his libido and that you are separated for longer periods of time, he may seek elsewhere what he cannot get on the spot.

Talk with him about his potential problem but mostly, tell him that you are more than just sexual organs that are only good enough to relieve his sexual tension. His behavior is a no go.

[Asker]

It is because we don’t have enlightened sex? His behaviour annoys the crap out of me so much and I reject and dismiss him. Sometimes I don’t do it with him for 3 weeks at a time because I don’t feel the emotional connection and so I don’t want sex then.

[Asker]

I means we don’t have sex regularly as he wants*

[Asker]

I meant*

[Asker]

Then he pouts and makes me feel guilty for not opening my legs to someone who doesn’t value me as a person

[SueShe]

You need to seriously talk with him about how he perceives you. I would recommend that you prepare a list of issues that you see within your relation and to each issue, you bring up a solution to the problem. Ask your boyfriend to do a similar list, independent from yours. Thereafter, you sit together and go over both lists trying to find a consensus that is acceptable to both parties. The important thing is not to be angry or accusing because that would not only falsify the outcome but make things only worse. The essence of a relation is in communication. Without it, there is no real relation.

[iseekpinetrees]

Tell him no if u don't want it. Guys who have a high sex drive are normally like this. Also ones who have nothing better to give you either. Change up the conversation. Speak up girlie tell him how you feel and how to change.

[Asker]

What do you mean when you say who have nothing to give you?

[iseekpinetrees]

They can only fuck you, offer the peen. Not give you a good life good partner good friendship. Someone who cares about you won't only want to fuck you all the time.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That pretty normal for a guy with a high sex drive but if the something that bothers why don't you talk to him about it

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[Rudon00]

So do you find it annoying?

Well it seems he enjoys having sex with you.

[Emii_Urashima]

Some guys just look at a girl as a body and a pussy. They don't care about the girl at all.
You should move on.

[Angelsukuna]

Tell him you're not just a sex doll.. if it bothers you that much

[Bricealan]

Normal sex talk from a guy. Hormones.

[Iron_Man]

If you don’t like it to him to back it off

[BMWE46M3]

U girls are something else. Some guys want a girl that can keep up with them.

[Asker]

You guys are somethingggg shit

[BMWE46M3]

How’s wanting sex shit. If u can’t keep up with his sex drive find a lazy man that wants to have sex once a year.

[Asker]

You have no reading comprehension.

[james_d0007]

1. Tell him what you want
2. He doesn't listen - break off and move on

3. Many guys out there who would love you for more than sex only.

Based on what u told us he sees you just as a sex doll nothing more nothing less!