Boyfriend always wants bjs?

Been with my boyfriend for 3 months and I'm 18. I likes bjs and when I first did it for him I enjoyed it and swallowed or let him finish wherever. Him getting hot from them made me happy too. Now almost everyday he wants me do it for him but I'm getting tired and mouth is starting to hurt because doing it so much. I feel like only thing he likes is my bjs. I don't want him to be mad at me if Istart saying no. So don't know what to do.
Boyfriend always wants bjs?


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Most Helpful Guys

  • Sit him down and talk about the frequency of ur sexual interactions. Perhaps introduce something that would make bjs more enjoyable for you as well. For example, 69, or just rotating. I hate to say this, but because a bj a day is normal to your relationship in his eyes, it may not be a breeze of a convo, and there very well may be some push back. But, it's a conversation that obviously needs to be had. However, you can feel relieved because communication gives you the best chance of finding common ground. Being prepared will help, so have your concerns ready and emphasize that you want to make him happy, but the only way you can do that is with compromise. That you would enjoy the same level of attention you give to him sexually, but can't give him your best if you don't have time to recover. That u value quality sexual interactions, rather than quantity, but are willing to meet him half way because you care about him. Hope that helps. Communication is always key, Good luck.

  • Pick somebody and tell them the enemy is after your mind. Out to worry you to death, out to stress you to death, out to break you down, out to make you quit, out to make you think that you can't get up, out to make you give up on your dream. The warfare is in your mind. Its not in your mouth, its not in your relationship, its not on your job. The fight that you’ve got to fight is in your mind. and if you whip it in your head, you can whip it your mouth, you can whip it on your job, you can whip it out of your boyfriend. But you gotta drive it outta your head.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Your jaw muscles will stop getting sore as long as you keep doing it frequently enough. Try twice or three times a day until you get used to it. Of course, he will too. ;)

  • Just say him that your mouth hurt and thats why you need a break

    I think you deserve that he also do something for you, a break is the minimum...

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  • Just say something along the lines of I've been doing it so much my mouth is sore. Maybe offer sex or a handy. Or even just say you want to take a break. If he gets mad then he's obviously an asshole and doesn't care about you much. Relationships are Give and take.

  • Tell him your mouth gets tired and as much as you like doing them, you don't want to start to not like bjs from doing them too much. Kinda like when your penis gets sore from having sex all the time.

  • Are you saying that he always wants blowjobs over other sex acts, or are blowjobs the only sex acts you do, and so he wants one daily? Those are quite different scenarios.

  • If it's causing you pain tell him no! If he doesn't care about your pain then fuck that guy! Are you a virign? And not having sex with him yet? Young guys are horny yes but you don't always have to say yes especially if you are tired/sore/hurting...

  • You can tell him that he'll have to earn his BJ's. Set some challenges or targets for relationship and when he achieves them in a week then give him what he wants. You can create mini two or three day challenges.

  • Just talk to him tell him you need a break from giving a blow-job or have him start sucking on your vagina. For awhile.

  • reduce it gradually

  • Just tell him that you have to be in the mood, too. If he doesn't get that then he's just using you for sex.

  • Tell him. The worst that could happen is him guilt tripping you. At which point you will know.

  • Say no... He doesn't deserve you if he can't deal without it. Its that simple lol

  • You let him know that you deserve some reciprocity, girl! He wants to feed you a cum cocktail? Then you get some fucking! You have EARNED it. And I'm saying that as a man. He wants you to drink his juice? He is gonna Eat at the Y until you scream. You have EARNED it! Don't do a flat-out "no", just let him know you want something for you, too.

  • Will you continue to give him BJs?

    • I want to do it for him. I like do it for him.

    • Interesting

  • Tell him it's your body. Take what you offer or nothing

  • Yes they want...

    • U should say when u want to... and it should be acceptable to him...

  • Please control it now, otherwise later, it will harm you both and make addicted.

  • Men r emotional fools.
    Make him understand about bacteria present in male organ, and can harm Ur throat and stomach.

    • Ewww haha I think we have more bacteria in our mouth right?

  • Don't just say no , explain it a bit , that your mouth is tired from BJ and you can't do it today

  • Demand cunnis ;)

  • lol yeah, don't spoil him and you've been swallowing it every day? that happened to me a while back. It feels great but we don't notice we are being greedy. Tell him enough is enough and you need love too.

  • Tell him. If he cares about you, he will understand. If not, he is just using you for sex.

    • True...