Boyfriend asked if his friend can have sex with me?

My boyfriend of 10 years just asked me if his friend can fuck me. What does that mean? I feel disgusted that he would even ask me that? I’m starting to question if I should even be in this relationship.
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  • Some guys are cucks

  • Talk to him more. It may be a fantasy or fetish he has. Ask him why and how it would work.
    If you're not comfortable with it though, then just say no thanks.

    No reason to break up over a question at this stage.

  • He does not value you. Can he satisfy you? Does he throw shit tests like this one at you often?

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    • Nope, first time he every said something like that. Honestly we are going on 12 years together and have 2 kids together. We have a home and he has come a long ways. This just surprised me and I’m shocked and very upset that he would just ask me that. He said it was a test to see how drunk I was! I was like wtf no guy was at our home but like wtf what kind of test is that!

    • It can definitely called shit test. You must let him know. That was absolute disrespectful whether you were drunk or not. You two must be married after 12 years. We're you out on girls night?

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  • He must be offered the money or swapping

  • Time to bounce.

  • he's not marriage material honestly, but keepem as your fuck boy ! seriously not marriage material your not going to be able to trust him in monogamy sorry.

  • like a threesome?

    • I don't know what he really meant.

    • they are fun

  • Yes that is completely normal this is probably a fantasy he has had for a while and wants to try it out. Yes he still loves you yes he wants to be with you but like him most guys have that fantasy I even have that and wish my fiancée would do it to. But I would not pressure her to doing so but if I were you I would at least just think about it and consider it for him. And if you still don’t want to do it then just let him know.

  • That's very sad but I also feel sad how 10 years you know is such a long time and you know.. I just feel bad for anyone who spends time on anything and then yeah these things happen or ruin the whole track record sadly 😭😭😭😲

    Personally if I was a woman I honestly would feel all those emotions too. It's easy if ones good at being able to put themselves in others shoes man or woman or intersex genders.

  • That he is a cuckold.

  • Tell him you would have sex with his friend only if he too had sex with him, freak the shit out of him.

  • It is definitely weird. Did he give any reason? Like his friend is lonely and needs to get laid? Or that he has some sort of weird fantasy about his friend having sex with you? It is all weird anyway but I'm just curious as to what he is thinking.

  • Nice man u got there LOL fuck girl why u with him

  • Some guys get off on that for whatever reason. I was once in a semi-open relationship with a guy. After I would do something sexual with another guy, he’d be all over me, like insatiable. I never got it myself. I just know that kink exists.