Boyfriend can’t or won’t cum inside me anymore?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now, and were friends-with-benefits/fuck-buddies off and on for 2years before we started dating. Up until the beginning of the year, he was able to orgasm and cum no matter how I stimulated him. But since shortly after New Years, he stopped cumming inside me and rarely cums when I manually or orally stimulate him. He gets an erection just fine, he just doesn’t finish. He usually ends up taking over and finishing himself, or just rolls over and says he’ll cum in the morning (which rarely ends up happening, and when it does it’s by his own hand).

We have been living together for a couple of weeks now, so I know he isn’t watching too much porn or masturbating too much, and the issue started prior to us living together so I don’t think the stress of it is the cause. I’ve brought it up casually, and he tells me he just gets in his head too much whenever he tries to finish. But he has no problem finishing when he’s doing it himself.

I try not to think it’s something I’m doing wrong, but it’s hard not to assume responsibility. What might be going on, and how do I fix it?
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  • It's just he's feeling awkward or might be he's little stressed that guys moved together there'd something more than just fun like responsibilities or anything just talk with him let him open his self !
    Or might be recently something happened with you guys and he's finding bit weird to do it !!! Chill just talk with him !

  • Could be anything. Maybe he's getting sick of you or maybe has too much on his mind. All you can do is communicate with him to find out. Either he trusts you enough to tell you or doesn't. It's not something for you to fix since it's his issue. He needs to open up.

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  • If this continues, he needs to see a doctor. It could be anything from depression, low testosterone level, anxiety, etc.

  • He must be addicted to porn videos

    • Bro she just said we're living together and he's not watching porn and even not masturbating

  • The only girl I stopped cumming in was because I was pretty sure she was off the pill trying to get pregnant. She was crazy. But I’d just pull out after I felt that way. I don't know about your guy though. Maybe he doesn’t want to go down on you with that in you? Could be a million things.

  • Is he stressed out?

  • Have you asked him about recent medication? Maybe one of his medicines is causing that effect

  • Girl he is not into u anymore. Leave him nd find someone else

  • Its you

  • Sounds like a symptom of porn addiction.