Boyfriend doesn’t know I’m bisexual?

Is it something worth mentioning? Do you think it’ll change anything for him?
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I’m not hiding it, but it somehow never came up.
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I told him and he’s become very possessive and insecure about me getting sexually aroused by other women.
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  • As a bisexual women, you and your boyfriend should see "Women And Sometimes Men". This is an excellent film, that is a 'comedy' with some small amount of drama thrown in, and it would exactly match the relationship you are in, and would probably be instrumental in how you and you SO deal with it. Maybe not a problem at all. Who knows?

  • that depends on him, ask him if he thinks bi-sex girls are Hot? go from there

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  • Just be yourself. If he starts asking you if you're bi, just tell him "fuck yes I'm bi, is that a problem?"

    I'm bisexual and I've never felt the need to hide who I am.

    • I did mention that I’m not hiding it. I don’t really care if he doesn’t accept it because I’ll end things then

  • I do not understand people who are afraid of dating someone who's bisexual. We're just as capable of being monogamous as straight or gay people. I would tell him (I mean keeping secrets in a relationship usually does no good) but make sure to let him know just like he's surrounded by other women at work, the store, the park, etc, and only has eyes for you, the same is true- you only have eyes for him.

  • Well as I’m sure you know most guys really rather like our flexibility. He just needs to know that He is your main entertainment

  • You should tell. Who knows what might happen in the future if he knows?

  • Maybe it will, maybe it won't, but you should tell him and find out sooner rather than later. Are you hoping to have both him and other women as sex partners?

  • You should tell him. I have no idea if it will change anything or not.

  • I would date a girl who is bisexual I would like her to let me know if she's bisexual

  • Suggest a ffm 3some.

  • I don't think he will mind it

  • Maybe he will ask for a threesome lol

    • Lol offer him a threesome and let's see how insecure he will be

    • What will that do?

    • You will come to know whether he is Ok with that or he will be still possessive. But real question is were do you stand on level of attraction is it towards girls or boys more? How likely would you say you won't consider a girl in relationship with this guy? Or would you bring in other girl into this relationship?

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  • It might, it shouldn't

  • No reason to bring it up unless you are looking for a three way

  • Yes... He should know. It could change everything. Many don’t care. I’d run like hell.

    • Good thing that I’m not dating you then.

  • I think you should tell him.

  • For me it would be a turn on but everyone is different

  • Yes change for sure but he has to know this only far

  • I don't know but I’d tell him

  • Do you mind if another female join you..

  • yes, i would be ok with it

  • i would break up with you if you told me that

    • You would never be able to land me in the first place

    • you have no idea who i am