Is it that he doesn't do it very often or has he never done it at all? I ask just to see if he has any hangups about taking sex to that point in general.
Aside from that, there are definitely times when I'm not interested in penetration. In my experience, girls have always gotten more out of penetrative sex than just the physical pleasure alone. There was always something additional about having someone inside them. It wasn't necessarily an emotional thing, but it was more than just the tingly, happy orgasm type feeling that comes from stimulating a clitoris.
There are times when I get more out of penetration than just the physical sensations on my penis, but those are usually situations when being inside someone brings me an emotional connection. If I'm not looking for that, putting my penis inside a vagina is just a means to an end, and that end can be achieved in a number of ways. Intercourse can be fun because vaginas are warm, and tight, and wet, and I'm generally in control of how my penis is being stimulated. That being said, it can also be a lot of physical effort, and it tends to rest on the guy more than the girl (in most positions, at least). There have been times when it's taken me a long time to cum, and I've come away from sex with serious pain in my abs. So there are times when my thought process is, "I'd like to cum somehow. A handjob sure sounds like a lot less work on my end." (Not a footjob for me, but that's because I have issues with feet.)
There's also something to be said for having someone take care of your needs like that. Handjobs and blowjobs have always made me feel really good for that reason. Still, it shouldn't be like that all the time.
I would first suggest a position that has you taking a more active role and see how he responds. If he still turns you down, explain that penetration is important to you, and ask him what the heck is up.
he used to do it a lot but he hasn't penetrated in about 3 weeks.. a few days ago i asked him if his penis was hurting but he said no.. i told him i noticed it had been awhile since he was in me but right after that we had sex and he asked me to give him a footjob...
Normally I give these really long detailed answers but what is wrong with him? If it's worry about getting you pregnant they make condoms, pills, and other contraceptives. Otherwise you need to talk to him and ask him why he doesn't want to.
Let me just lay this out for you.
1. He's gay
2. Foot fetish... Ew.
3. He has and STD
4. Something is wrong and you just need to confront him sincerely and ask him why. Don't take No for an answer until you get an approving reasonable answer.
You should go with 4)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!he has a foot fetish. enough said.
either he has an overwhelming fear of getting you pregnant or there is some weird stuff going on...
This may just be his thing.
Has be always behaved this way, or is it a recent trend that's just popped up?
He could just really, REALLY be into feet and hand jobs. It'd be on the rare side of things, but not totally unheard of.
I don't know. You should ask him and report back.
He doesn't want to "accidentally" get you pregnant, enough said, LOL!
i think thats probably it.. i hope thats all lol
Wow I'd jump at sliding in u his foreskin may b a problem in ur tight pussy mmmmm n Mayb he had feetishes
he doesn't have his foreskin lol
K maybe he knows he has an std n doesn't want u to get it Mayb ur pussy is to tight on his cock mmmmmm I'd enjoy that. Haha hmu if u wanna chat
How long have you been together? For most guys, penetration is the most important part of sex.
it maybe for religious reasons. Some faiths believe penetration must be after marriage. Or maybe he is very afraid he may make u pregnant.
is better that way if you dont want to get pregnant
I prefer shoulder jobs so I feel him
How does that work?
Bang an armpit mmm
Omg.. Mouth drops
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