Boyfriend doesn't like to touch me?

[Anonymous]

so my boyfriend always says he's going to do freaky stuff to me but when it actually comes down to it he starts to act scary. He lets me do things to him but I have to really get him to want it. He doesn't like to touch me sexually which I don't get because he always says he want to but he doesn't. so I tell him about it and he's all like "I will" and i'm like then do it and he still doesn't. And, by sexual I mean grab my ass or finger me ya know but he says he wants to but he acts scary. funny thing is he's older than me so I would think he's experienced. I'm sexually frustrated and I have thought about cheating but I'm trying not to get that far. sooo?

[WiseTurtle]

While I'm reading this I find myself into some sort of a loop because you bring up the same facts over and over again. The last sentence was shocking somehow because you thought about cheating which is very very bad, If you said that you gonna break up with him and seek another guy that would be less bad but anyway my advice for you is to talk to him seriously this time about this and tell him that you have the same sexual needs as him and they need to be satisfied like you satisfy his.

[Plowboy]

He is afraid of getting hurt, not physically but emotionally, he loves you but you have to be the one who makes the first move,
Just take tis pants off say nothing and just do him, he is ready for sex but he wants you to love him , when you do make love to him make him feel loved, show him you want him and promise him you would never break his heart

[goddess87]

I'm going to assume since you are already thinking to cheat bc of this you've been together for awhile. He could simply be not interested in sex, stressed out, or not attracted to you. Only he could tell you for sure. Also are you clean down there? If you smell bad down there that would turn a guy off as well. Just put him on the spot and ask him what his problem is

[Anonymous]

Definitely gay. Because he tells you things he could do with boys too (fingering, well not really 😂) but it turns him on saying things like that but he wants to do it with guys. That's just a possibility.

[SneezinWithBlessin]

Maybe you can try to lead him
Like take his hand when you're doing it and but it there where you like it. And also be kind to him and try to make him feel confident about himself

[Asker]

i've tried that already ugh

[AndyOh]

Soo, you need a new boyfriend who will do all those fun things to you that you want. I don't think this one is going to change.
Good luck.

[Dude55]

Tell him to lay down and sit on his face.

[Intraluminal]

He's gay.

[lucifer1298]

He might be gay

[Asker]

hmmm he jokes about it often... why do you think that?'

[lucifer1298]

Ok tell me are you hot or not?

[Asker]

I'm pretty good looking I guess

[lucifer1298]

So if my girl is hot and is sexually open Why would i be passive in bed?

[MistaM2daE]

He's either scared or lacks self confidence just make a relaxing atmosphere for him
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[OlderGuy965]

Oh, fucking dump his ass.

[Decentguy]

Dont know why, but to me, it sounds like that either he's gay, or he never done much sexual stuff before, so he's scared or either very shy

[kazu_4117]

He is afraid he will screw up and be rejected.

[LastNightmare]

time to go for exchange mela

[Reddwolf]

He doesn't know what he wants

[Lumberman53]

Is he shy?

[captanmarcos1]

I think yes

[Asker]

you think yes to what?

[captanmarcos1]

You are hot lady but he is not like

[Ben3029]

I'm sure he wants to, as most guys do, but understand society these days really put a lot of pressure against guys and sex. One false move, mistake, or say a bruise gets left accidentally, the guy can really get hit hard. If I was you I'd literally grab his hand and show him what you want. Guide him through it. It might take one try it a few tries, but after that you'll have what you want.

[Yogesh95]

Is this his first time to sexual involved with a girl?