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Boyfriend finishes quickly, what’s the best ways to make sure I can enjoy myself too- girls any suggestions?

So my boyfriend and I have been together a little while and have slept together a few times, but each time he has got really excited and comes really quickly.
I’m glad that I turn him on and he gets really into it but I find that I’m not finishing, like I’m getting really into it and ready but not climaxing at all and then we will have to do other things for me to get there afterwards etc.
So are there suggestions for me to be able to finish quicker, like more foreplay etc so that I’m almost ready to go when we get started?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Premature ejaculation (PE) is when you have an orgasm before intercourse or less than a minute after you start. There is no set time when a man should ejaculate during sex, but if you ejaculate and lose your erection this soon, you and your partner may feel there’s not enough time to enjoy it.

    Suggested reading
    https://www.webmd.com/men/what-is-premature-ejaculation

    In case of any questions or need any further assistance feel free ask. 😊

  • If he cares about your pleasure suggest to him he ensures you get your orgasm or requisite pleasure before he jumps in. That way your pleasure won't be missed if his stamina gets overloaded, and if it doesn't you get more pleasure...

Most Helpful Girl

  • He needs to eat you out that’s great he’s excited but we’re grown you need to finish too especially if he cares about you.

    • Or toys

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Its down to him really, he needs to learn to pace him self... i think most guys in a normal relaxed situation can go from 0 - cum in seconds... its all about learning when to slow down and stop and use foreplay... afterwards also it be a courtesy for him to help finish you off if he does come too quick

  • Don’t make a move on him, just ask him to pleasure you & make you orgasm first (by cunnilingus or fingering or both, etc).


    After you reached your climax, then you can start make a move on him.

  • Just make him keep going! Tell him to get back in there and do it again! Tell him he's not fucking done, tell him he'd better get serious and fuck your pussy to DEATH!!!

    Tell him, "NO MERCY!!!"

    In fact, grab him by the back of the head and scream it in his face.

    • LOL!!

    • "Oh, boo hoo hoo, I can't fuck your pussy no more I already made cummies!" Slap that boy. Tell him to go smoke a cigar and come back.

  • Oral, toys, have him practice holding his pee (I hear that somehow makes a man last longer), try edging, become polyamorous, masterbation... To name a few ways to make sure you're getting your money too.

  • Foreplay will make your orgasm come sooner, but the same nay be true for him.

  • He should definitely use his hands and mouth and if that's really not enough you can try a toy or inviting another man to get involved.

  • A tongue can do wonder... and After few Minutes he's ready again😉

  • Introduce a toy to proceedings

  • More foreplay and maybe after play for you.

  • Easy... don’t let him put it in until he has gotten you off at least once orally or otherwise.

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