Boyfriend follows many nude models/porn stars on Snapchat and instagram?

[Anonymous]

I recently found out that my boyfriend is following many porn stars and nude models on Snapchat and instagram. It makes me feel uncomfortable because I woke up to him looking at these women while I was next to him and it feels weird knowing he’s on these two sites a few times a day being constantly stimulated by these women. I also send him nude videos and pictures through these sites, which now makes me feel like I shouldn’t because how can you compare to those women. I feel like I’m pretty attractive, fun and open sexually, but this feels uncomfortable. When I brought it up to him he dismissed my feelings and told me I was being ridiculous. Any advice would help. Is it normal for men to follow and pay for premium accounts on these sites even if you are in a relationship?

[ChristianFriis]

I don't think it's even normal for guys to pay for porn.
However, I'll tell you that no amount of photos of photoshopped porn stars is ever going to measure up to you, a flesh and blood girl who can give him a hug and share body warmth with him.
It has nothing to do with you not being enough for him, watching porn while in a relationship is pretty normal, some couples watch it together even.

[Asker]

I appreciate your input. Thank you.

[prosciutto]

It's insane to feel jealous over porn. If it interferes with your relationship, then discuss it with him. Maybe he just wants to keep his masturbation to himself. If it wasn't an issue before you found out, then it shouldn't be an issue now

[kittycat119]

I've seen this question before

[Patrickjv]

Pay for porn? I'll say give me freemium or give me death. Yeah your boyfriend has some porn addiction. Sounds like a retard.

[jessture]

Men are visually stimulated by women. Get over it. Do you ever read smut, ex. Fifty Shades of Grey and all that?

[Asker]

I’m a fan of porn. I’ve tried engaging him with porn since I found out he follows so many girls and he stonewalls me.

[MetalPanther]

We all have sexual fantasies, even when we are in relationships. The reality is we can't control other people's minds.
There is nothing wrong with looking at porn. Women read porn too.
Maybe he wants something from you sexually. Why not ask him?

[Asker]

I have, he stonewalls me. I’ve even taken him to a store and let him pick out things as well as me picking out things, but he hasn’t been interested in using any of it.

[AnalGaper]

Pass em along for us

[CubaPirate]

dump him & move on!

[VisceralVic]

Okay enough with the douchebag quick response bs. Yes it is normal that said the porn shouldn't keep you two from being together. If he's sexually distant he's probably getting off more than necessary. I have a girlfriend and while I look at porn a few times a day, it doesn't interfere with our relationship, sexual or otherwise.