Boyfriend gets immediate erection when he sees me?

Hi guys, I was wondering how normal this is... I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and still almost every time he sees me when I visit him (about twice a week) he gets very aroused. Does this mean he just mainly finds me sexually attractive and that is the main theme of our relationship in his mind... or pants? lol
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  • Lol! Your relationship is really healthy. It would be sad if he didn't find you attractive anymore. A boner doesn't always mean "I want to fuck" even if its possible of course. But I sometimes get a boner from just feeling good, for example this fat old lady who gives me a back massage once a week. Im definetly not into fat or old ladies. But the back Massage she gives makes me get a boner. When this happened the first time and she noticed it after I stood up I was like "thi... this... uhm" and she was like "I knooooow I do this for so many years now. You just felt comfortable. Its ok."
    So dont worry he finds you attractive and this doesn't have always to do with sex.

    • Haha ok thanks :)

  • When I was in a relationship it was up when she was around. It doesn't necessarily mean we want sex or to do anything sexual at the moment. Also its more than just looks that triggers the involuntary response

    • Oh... like what else?

    • Smell, voice, cute mannerisms

    • Ahh so basically when you are feeling "in-love" like, aww shucks she's so cute and sexy, and alll mine! lol

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  • No it means he loves you so much you make him pop boners like a horny factory. Pounce that dude like crazy!

    With my boyfriend all I have to do is look at his face and I want to jump his bones. The only reason i'm a major pervert with him because I love him so much. :)

  • Serial dater right here = my dates/men with me = TOTALLY "normal" :)

    I luuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurve it!!!

  • That's great lol. My boyfriend always gets a boner around me too. Even if we are only cuddling while watching a movie.

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  • Why are you only seeing him twice a week when you have been together for 3 years?

    The erection thing isn't normal for a man in his 30's.

    • He lives further away from me and different work schedules.. well he's a bit younger then me.. but yeah.

    • Well at least it means he most likely isn't sleeping with anyone else. He just isn't getting it enough. Do you not spend whole weekends together? Get on that.

    • We used to.. yeah no hes' very loyal :)

  • I get erections from anything really :P

  • Just because a guy is expressing feelings in his pants doesn't mean it's always a sexual thought behind it.

    • What else then?

    • All I can say is it has a mind of its own so don't read too much into it.

    • ok fair enough

  • It doesn't mean he doesn't value the other stuff, just that he wants to rip off your clothes when he sees you. Isn't that a good thing?

    • Yeah, he says I'm the best he's ever had... so I just don't want it to be like "that's all we have"

  • Shouldn't you be more worried if this were not the case? He must really like you, he may find you sexually attractive, yes but that doesn't mean that is all. When I really like a woman I will find she turns my on more I would say. Maybe it's something you do.

    • True, I just don't want the relationship to be one-dimensional where it's just my physical appearance.

  • Not necessarily.

  • Wow... I don't know whether to say 'lucky him' or 'lucky you'... how does that go down in public? You meet him in a public place and he springs an erection..."I know we're in church, but I can't help it"

    • haha both :) Well not in public (that I know of )

    • Well, you must have something special... ;-)

  • Oh yeah thats normal, he is just really in love with pretty much everything about you:)

    • Aww meaning he has really strong feelings for me?

    • Yeah that and he finds that you are sexy too!

  • It happens. We can't always control it and it can be embarrassing sometimes especially if it's at the wrong time or place. It doesn't automatically mean he wants to get straight into your pants. It just likes what it sees and says hmmmm I'm coming up lol

    • haha so for a boyfriend, is it more like he likes the "whole package" personality and looks? vs a random guy that just likes the "look"?

    • I'd say whole package

    • ok, thank u

  • Are you sexual together?

    • yes, like most relationships...

    • Then he is strongly attracted to you and thinks about sex with you vividly.

    • Do you think that is his main focus of the relationship then?