Boyfriend gets jealous that I want to fuck a woman?

When we talk about it he gets jealous and acts irrational. Why does my boyfriend feel the need to compete against these women I’m not even sleeping with?

And for those who like to say “that’s why you should never date any bisexual woman”. Well, I don’t want to hear from you, or I’ll literally delete your comments, unless you give me a more realistic perspective.
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  • I'm not sure what your looking for here most that want a monogamous relationship would act the same many guys that wouldn't mind bringing a extra women to the bed I imagine would be fine with it but if your boyfriend was under the impression that stuff like that wouldn't happen I can see why this info would urk him

    • Like if you are monogamous why would you even tell him that and not think it would go down good?

    • We were in the mood so I said that I wanted another woman and his mood changed completely and he started being jealous etc.

    • Lol if your in the mood for stuff why would you say you want someone else lol unless he has said before that he is into you wanting others I'm not surprised why that shut things off lol

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  • It's not the fact that you're not sleeping with them, it's the fact that you want to.

    I mean I would feel the need to compete too if I were in his shoes, I want to he good enough that my partner won't even imagine fucking anyone else.

    I don't see why it's hard to understand the jealousy here, you're not in the wrong or anything, but I'm just saying.

Most Helpful Girls

  • 🙄 Maybe because he is going out with you and doesn’t want you fucking anyone else... if you guys are in a open relationship then maybe he is jealous that you might like woman more then man and he is afraid to loose you.

    • We are monogamous

  • I don't know why he's freaking out it's not like you'll get pregnant or anything

    • Right!!

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  • Wow, your lack of self awareness about what you are doing is mind boggling.

  • Just for one moment turn the table and think how you would feel if he came out and said he wanted to fuck another guy... Food for thought perhaps.

    • @dovido He’s not gay, sweetie.

    • Not gay!!

    • What? Who's dovido?

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  • jealousy is the wrong word for this... he clearly feels threatened and thats what you need to address.

  • You can delete mine too. He shouldn't even be dating you to begin with if that's what you want to do.

    • Thank you!

  • If you are in a monogamous relationship and you want to fuck someone else and you are actively telling your partner to make them feel insecure in your relationship. Then you need to call it off before you cause some serious damage to your boyfriend, emotionally. If you care about them.

  • Well put aside whatever gender you are attracted to or were referring to. If you were with one person but we're fantasizing about another person, it obviously feels bad. Maybe he did over react. But maybe it is a trigger for him thinking that you might never be fully/exclusively be into him

  • It appears that your boyfriend is sexually insecure, unless his objection is based on religion.
    When I was about your age, I was with a bisexual female. I did not have a problem with her sapphic desires, especially when I was invited to watch and, sometimes, join in.
    About half the young female population of the West are bisexual, so any man who has an issue with that is going to have a problem.

  • Are you bisexual?

    • Retarded?

    • I’m asking you a legit question. But hey, if you wanna be a bitch. Fine

    • Doesn’t my post imply that anyway?

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  • We j wouldn’t, But!! What if he said the same thing?
    maybe try to include him for the first time. Is this ur first time with a woman too?

  • He's obviously not into that, so maybe he should just dump you.

  • Probably cuz he figures you dont want just him an it scares him

  • Honestly how would you feel if your boyfriend said you know what i wanna go out and have sex with a dude because you are giving me enough head or making me feel good like a man with the same body part could. How would you feel hearing your partner complain or talk about having sex with anyone but you. That hurt's most people and with him knowing that, its very likely that he thinks you cheat on him if you saw a more attractive women, however he could also be thinking sense your talking about it so much you may already be doing it. who knows, however who wouldn't get jealous knowing there partner is talking about romantically or just physically being wit someone else

    • Question poster didn't even specify if they were in a monogamous or open relationship. Which is a flag to me in general.

  • Would you ever consider bringing a woman into a sexual relationship with him also? He n aee t be more accepting if it was s threesome.

  • Yes, I’d be worried if my wife wasn’t satisfied by me. Just because you’re bi doesn’t mean you’re auto promiscuous.

  • You give him the impression that he is not enough for you, or you don’t need him.

  • Well, think you are a treasure, your boy the pirate... what would a pirate do if feels someone what to steal his more beloved treasure?, for us does not mather man or women, it is anyway someone touching our beloved. I think if some guy agree to do so, they need therapy or doesn't love you enough... I hope that explains a bit...

    • but to add all, harm much more if your treasure want to be with other, your sexuality does not matter at this point... is the fact that you want someone that is not him. and I completely understand him. I do not share neither share myself. please understand I am not judging you.

  • i might understand being jealous of another guy, but not a woman. and the only reason of being jealous of a guy is the chance of pregnancy

  • Better get rid of his ass matter of fact keep ur bizness in ur hat

  • Maybe he don't like the idea of you sleeping with someone else.

  • Women surely are more beautiful.