Boyfriend has a ball busting fetish, I think this is a mental health issue (getting aroused by getting hurt). How to help him overcome these thoughts?

[Anonymous]

[OddBeMe]

Like actual pain to his balls? That’s weird and should prob get therapy. But if it’s just a little I guess it’s fine.


I like my balls scratched after, sometimes she digs her nails in if I get to riled…pretty hot.

[Shamalien]

He needs to stop watching this deadly porn which feminizes men

[Asker]

How do I help him stop 😅

[Shamalien]

Incentivize him. What does he want besides ball busting?

[Asker]

at home? I don't know how to answer that exactly

[Shamalien]

Well do you know nothing about your partner?

[Asker]

I mean I don't know what exactly you are looking for... We watch movies, go out shopping/dining quite often, cook together and more

[Shamalien]

I’m sure there is something non depraved that he desires to do sexually with you that you could bribe him with, or like a favourite dinner place, maybe go karting? Or you could ask him, what could I do for you that would make you give up porn besides ballbusting?

[Asker]

He doesn't get erect without imagining ball busting stuff. He either wants me to say/do it if not he imagines something similar to be erect

[Reece12345]

You might want to have talk with him? Ask him if he has other turn ons?

[Dargil]

I agree but have no idea.

[Kyyroz]

Therapy.

[Keishio]

Why don't you just do it for him? Chances are ot won't go away and eventually he'll get it elsewhere

[Asker]

I felt so as well and yes it wouldn't hurt me to bust his balls daily but isn't there a permanent solution? One that doesn't hurt him

[Keishio]

He clearly likes being hurt. It's not my cup of tea but I don't see it as much different from women who like to be slapped or choked. It's just a thing

[Asker]

Girls being choked or slapped don't end up losing organs. He might not be able to reproduce if his balls are damaged

[Asker]

He might be required to take testosterone shots later to function normally

[Keishio]

I don't know, bud. Might just have to give them a yank and squeeze once in a blue moon to cheer him up

[In_Trance]

unless you're a certified therapist, you can't help anything