Boyfriend has a poop fetish?

So.. this might be too explicit for some people but I have to ask this.

A few days ago my boyfriend told me about his poop fetish. It started out with him telling me he'd been listening in on me going to the toilet. He said that he really wanted me to poop on him. I told him I liked that he was honest with me and that I would do it for him, even though I'm not into it myself.
So I might not have been too clear to him about the last part... We haven't done any of the things yet, but he's opened up to me about his fantasies and as a good girlfriend I listen and don't judge.

The thing is that now he wants me to poop in his mouth. I really don't think I can do that.. I said maybe to him, and so he said "and then I want to spit it in your mouth". I know I definitely can't do that. It's revolting to me... I said "okay but I'd rather if youd spit it out and then we can have sex after"
But he just said "we'll have sex too"

How do I say "no way in hell" and draw the line to him without hurting his feelings? I mean I know it took guts to say
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I have a fetish for scat as well.

    But i wouldn`t want a girl to poop in my mouth, wouldn`t go that extreme. But i do enjoy the sight of seeing poop come out of a girl`s anus though. But that`s just about it. Or if i do anal, and i would see shit on my dick, that would turn me on as well. But that`s it. Not the whole pooping in mouth, and eating it and all that other extreme stuff. He been watching too much scat porn on Heavy-R dot com. Lmao i just exposed him,... and myself ;)

    • Haha alright 😂 well whatever people do on their own time But how would you like a girlfriend to say no thank you to doing things like that with you

    • By just doing it. Its your body, dafuq, lol. Just tell him you`re not into it. NO = NO And if he insists on doing so, well, then you know where you stand

    • Yeah I know it's my body but I don't want to hurt his feelings. And he's pretty insisting, so I think I have to make it very clear when I say it

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  • Wow, this world has really gone batshit crazy. Between this and all the anal fetishes, its messed up. Your boyfriend needs some mental help. I'm having a difficult time understanding how this is even a "sexual behavior" because there is nothing sexual about it.

    • It's sexual to him though

    • I get that, but like I said he should probably seek some help because this is not normal nor is it sexual in real life.

Most Helpful Girls

  • While I must agree, that is rather revolting, it’s good that you at least heard him out. It shows that you care about his needs as well as your own. But yeah, you definitely have to tell him that that’s something you don’t wanna do. Just let him know that you’re simply not comfortable with it and maybe you guys can come up with something else to try that you’re both okay with doing. Good luck.

  • You just be honest with him. Poop fetishes really do not take into account how infectious poop really is. Just tell him this will have to stay a fantasy.

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  • i think that you need to sit down and have a chat with him and say this is your fetish and that if you want me to poop on you thats cool and ill do it to satisy you and explain what you have here that its you being a good SO. but that you dont get turned on by it in your mouth and that you draw the line. be honest, is the best bet he will appreciate you for it. at least your meeting him half way?

  • Probably the oddest and mist gross fetish I've ever heard but tell him you are not into that and that it's not healthy and he should get therapy for it

  • #ICK #GROSS #YUCK

  • Sounds like he is trying to reenact a scat video he once saw.

  • That's not a poop fetish. That's poop heaven. Shit I'm gonna open up to my girl

  • Sounds shitty

  • Say you're dumping him. Oughta get him excited when he hears the word "dump."

  • It's on you to draw the line here.

  • Why don't you just tell him that the only thing you're going to do is that you're willing even though this isn't something you'd normally be into. That you're willing to shit in his mouth but then he's going to have to get up whether he eats it or whatever he does and wash his mouth out before we have sex but you're not willing to have anything else to do with it. I almost want to throw up even writing that

  • Consider moving on.

  • Wait so your are ok with pooping in his mouth but won't have sex with him after? Yeah because pooping in the mouth is not as bad as having sex with him after. Right?

    • No that's not what I wrote. I suggested the sex after in return if him spitting out the poop instead of spitting it into my mouth

    • I didn't say you said ok to him spitting the poop in your mouth but having sex with him after you are done pooping in his mouth. Once you agree to poop in someones mouth there just is no coming back. Your boyfriend has mental health issues. Instead of just watching it progress and respecting it you should get him help.

    • But he's normal and kind in every other aspect. I don't know why I agreed to do that to him... I just tried to be a good girlfriend :(

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  • Just be honest. You're not into it, he is.

  • just tell him that uk that i loved to do these things with u but i dont have the stomach for it and just say i can't do it

    • That's a good way to phrase it, thank you

  • I have very few red lines when it comes to sex... scat is one of them.

    • Me too...

    • It sounds like you're willing to go a lot further than I would. Even pooping on him would be way over my line.

    • I just want to make him happy. But poop shouldn't go in the mouth

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  • is he mentally retarded?

  • Howdy ho, drop trou and squeeze out a cleveland steamer on his chest lol

  • Pee fetish I understand that’s weird though

  • I have been into scat since a child. hearing women fart on the toilet. i have had many chinese escorts shit in my mouth. i have many videos made. i first asked the Asian escort i was seeing for a while. i used to have her just sit on my face and lick her ass while she gave me a hand job. then i just asked her. she laughed. said i already made caca. come next week i will try. then i came. early in the morning she said i have a big one. i laid down. licked her ass until she felt comfortable. she pushed but was shy. took her a while to push it out but finaly a hard chocolate banana log slid into my mouth. i dont swallow or smear. i just spit it out. from then on i had all the other girls who were willing to do it for me in the condo try it one by one.

  • You should absolutely do it if he’s your partner or a close friend who is ok with paying you for it. The ones who pay appreciate it more and don’t mind supporting you as long as it’s tasty lbvs

  • That's a shitty deal.

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