Boyfriend is into shemale p*rn?

[Anonymous]

Does this mean he is interested in having sex with a strap on or something? I'm definitely down for it, just kinda curious. Can anyone relate? What is it about shemales thats a turn on?

[Amagi82]

You should definitely make the offer for a strap-on- there's a high probability he'd be down for it. That said, what you discovered about him can be super embarrassing for a guy to admit, so it's important to be supportive, positive, and patient. Most importantly, keep it between you two unless he says otherwise. You can put him in some seriously awkward and unpleasant territory with his friends if you're not careful.

[Just_Matt]

If he's into it, it doesn't necessarily mean that he's gay. I'm into shemale hentai (anime p*rn) and I'm 100% straight. It's just a turn on for me and possibly for him. Even though he might like shemale p*rn, it doesn't mean that he wants strap on sex. You shouldn't ask him about the p*rn, it's a bit embarrassing for us guys for people to know that we watch p*rn. Instead, just ask him if he's bi gay.

[Asker]

I've asked him and he insists that he isn't. I think he might just be curious but idk. I will talk about it with him some more when the time comes.

[Just_Matt]

Well that might not be a good idea. If he says no and you still ask him, it can result in trust issues and relationship problems. He says he's not gay, keep it at that! You shouldn't assume that he's curious or wants gay sex or anything.

[Asker]

No I meant talk to him about the sex, not about whether he's gay or not lol

[abundantlyrich]

I don't blame him. Lots of shemales look much more sexy and feminine than cos females. They are kinda like self made hermaphrodites.

[Russian_Doll89]

Could mean nothing. You should confront him. But be nice, don't embarrass that poor thing.

[Asker]

No Im into some weird stuff too that he doesn't know about. I actually watch a lot of bi stuff, and have also watched shemale p*rn myself lol I didn't tell him that though. Maybe I should...

[Russian_Doll89]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with this. It is not gross nor is it illegal. It could be him just being curious. If I am curious about lesbian p**n, it does not make me be a lesbian or bisexual. If it was something more f***ed up than I would be concerned for sure. But I still think that you should talk to him about it and see what he has to say. But do so when you are calm and don't show him that you are concerned or weirded out.

[Asker]

Im not really weirded out by it. At first I was. I think I made him feel bad about it... I didn't mean to. Do you think I should just let it go or should I bring it up and let him know about the stuff I watch so he doesn't feel so bad about it?

[Russian_Doll89]

I personally think that you should be honest with him and bring it up to him. It will make both of you feel much better. A sense of relief in a way. And after that, forget it and never talk about it again. Because if you don't talk to him about it, it will bother you and can cause you to be less sexually active/more shy/whatever you can think of (those are just examples). So, talk to him and then make a deal that you will never bring this topic up again. All the best to you!

[slackercruster]

Go ahead, buy a strap on and surprise him!

[GuyAdviceFromGuy]

this is some effed up stuff. your bf probably is bi or likes to get it on with transexuals.

[justbeinghonest]

Ask him what he wants

[Asker]

We've kinda talked about it, but he's shy.

[justbeinghonest]

Then just get a strapon and pull it out in the bedroom

[Jack32]

Omg mmmm

[CuriousCatbug]

Perhaps he was just curious and searched for it to sate that curiosity?

but if he is into it and he has told you that, perhaps its something you should talk to him about and ask if he wants anything "special" in le bedroom

[chadsten]

How'd you find out that he's into it

[Asker]

I was looking something up on his phone and it popped up under the search bar lol

[chadsten]

welllll that's not really definitive proof. Maybe he was curious, but not necessarily 'into it'. I'd ask him about it before full on bringing out the strap on haha

[Asker]

Oh I confronted him about it. He was so embarrassed. He is into it for sure.

[chadsten]

In that case, blindfold him, THEN bring out the strap on

[reptocarl]

I think he's a deviant

[Snowe]

I'm actually into the same thing and it's because we find it kind of sexy that the person is a female, but she has a dick. It's just really hot. As far as the Strap on goes, I don't know what he's into.

[Asker]

Yeah, but coming from someone who likes shemales, is that something YOU are into?

[Snowe]

Hm, Honestly, I might be! :o The male's G spot is in his ass, so it does feel really good. But no, that does not make me, or anyone else who likes the feeling there, gay. I can tell you I am for sure not gay, I'm strictly into women. But maybe you should bring that up to him sometime?

[Asker]

Im definitely NOT saying my man is gay. But I do think he wants it in the ass lol And I love him enough to do that for him haha.

[Snowe]

Well, maybe you should try it soon. :) If my girlfriend offered to do that for me, i don't think i'd refuse haha. & Also, I was not implying he was gay haha.

[Jayded1]

Id say pegging is his thing for sure. He likes female bodies but is cock curious :)

[lonelylover]

he's slightly gay, sorry... she males are men with breast

[jakeofalltrades]

just because looks at a certain type of porn doesn't mean he want to try it, some people look at the stuff they never want to do for themselves

[Anonymous]

OP you said you like bi and shemale porn too in one of the comments, so why would you embarrass him, make him "insist" as you said below what his sexuality is, and you didn't mention that you watched it too? Straight up, you're an ass. You also went through his phone cause you were "looking something up"? You seem like a headache to date. You sound like a girl named Katie I used to know a while ago. You do wrong and don't address it. Instead you make someone else have to answer to your crap.

[Anonymous]

I like shemale porn, but I wanna get it in the butt lol.

[Anonymous]

It's possible. The fact that you're open minded and not immediately screaming "Is he gay?" is a good thing, and shows you can probably discuss this with him rationally.

[Anonymous]

I have seen real shemale (hermaphrodite) p*rn. It was a guy with an Asian girl who looked completely normal but had a penis the same size as mine above a vagina. No testicles. He blew her (it got bigger but did not come) and he f*cked her doggy while he stroked her. I admit it was arousing.