Boyfriend Is Obsessed With My Pussy?

It’s been 11 months and he still gets hard when he sees me. Is it ME or his sex drive?
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Why do people think I’m worried or complaining? It’s a question.
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Some people are really dumb and do NOT have reading comprehension. He gets hard when he sees ME, my FACE or when he drives past my place. He is ALREADY hard when he finally sees my vagina. Dumbasses lol
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Some vaginas are just more aesthetically pleasing than others. And ultimately it is a subjective preference taste and your boyfriend may just find yours to be “just right.” (Same goes for overall appearance.)
    Always keep in mind these things are PSYCHOLOGICAL. If you really want to understand, only understanding his psychology and what makes him like what he likes will give you answers.
    If you want to keep a surface understanding (physical) and use the law of averages, we know 1. SYMMETRY is the number one factor in what people find appealing. Many vaginas are not very symmetrical (labia and all )
    2. Association. Your overall appeal, psychologically, is so pleasant based on its associations to something/someone/some ideal/ some STORY narrative (think on that one).

    • Read the update. When did I say that he gets hard when he sees me naked? I said that he’s hard the moment I greet him.

    • Some Guys Are Clueless When It Comes To A Girls Body... Did You Fall Asleep During Human Anatomy? The Vagina Is Inside, You Can’t See It... What You’re Referring To Is Her Vulva... If You’re Going To Talk About Her Body, It Might Be Best To Know What You’re Talking About, So You Don’t Look Like A Fool...

  • Let me get this straight: He is liking you, he gets HARD seeing you, and you are asking WTF?
    Dozens on here would give MONEY to have that!! What are you so worried about?

    • I’m not worried, but curious.

    • But then every guy has been like that with me. I don't know.

    • What would you like, that he isn't doing?

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Most Helpful Girl

  • ... ir's you and his sex drive.
    Men are basically hardwired to be able to get hard and have sex almost instantly because women can only get pregnant during a very short span of each month and even then, it's not guaranteed that the fertilization will be successful. So the physiological response of guys getting hard at mere thoughts/cues is normal. My boyfriend of over six years says he often gets hard from just hearing my voice over the phone, while he's at work.

    So I guess similarly, your boyfriend knows where he gets his muffin buttered and associates thoughts of you, even if completely PG, with knowing he can get some actions. Hence him often being primed & ready. ;)

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  • Um, Congratulations? I don't see the problem. He is sexually attracted to you, I don't know why this would be concerning.

    • It’s not concerning, my god.

    • Then why ask the question?

    • Because that’s what this website is for? Wtf?

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  • If not your boyfriend, who else should be obsessed with your pussy?

    • You make sense

  • I would assume that it's a mixture of both

  • Well obviously it is both. How lovely, enjoy!

    • Thanks babe

  • He sounds like a normal horny guy. How is your sex life with him?

  • Both, but send a pic of your vag and I'll let you know ;)

    • Dumbass

  • Well without seeing said pussy.. I'd have to say he's a normal heterosexual.. 😁

    • Update

    • 😁😁

  • Probably both

  • It's you. Don't over think it.

  • It's both! And that's okay!

  • It isn't strange, I think it's normal. I still get rock hard when I see my girlfriend's pussy and we're together for more than 10 years.

    • I’m not talking about when he sees my pussy. I’m saying that he gets hard the moment he sees ME, my FACE, my PLACE.

    • Even that isn't weird. It only shows he finds you highly attractive.

    • Yeah!!

  • :D its not you or his sex drive. its only natural to get aroused when seeing the genitals of opposite sex. even after 10 years he would get hard after seeing your vagina. dont try to cut some slack to yourself in this, i think you are not that exciting

    • Well he drives past my place and gets hard

    • you said he gets hard from seeing your pussy?

    • May be his sex drive is just high for you to handle it

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  • It's both. He's horny and you make him more so, It's a compliment.

  • both, your brain releases hormones when you have sex in a relationship that encourages attachment to that person, so in a sense it's an addiction

  • both of them

  • Oh wow. You don’t say

    • @update It’s as if you’re fishing for compliments. Cause the question is kind of a no shit kind of question. Yet for some reason you are either playing dumb or are legitimately naive

    • I think you are, in some twisted way, jealous of the fact that we have what we have. You don’t know me or him, so why not keep your bitter and angry comments to yourself? Quite clear why you are single tbh.

    • No legit it doesn’t make sense. OBVIOUSLY he still has attraction towards you. His dick gets hard. Unless he has ed. I’m single cause I choose to be, I could care less who you are, or if anyone for that matter is getting laid.

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  • That's good! It means he loves you
    That's how it should be

  • Both.. in response to the is it you or his sex drive.. both..

  • Why is this an "or" question? Why wouldn't the answer just be "both?"

    • Because it’s not

    • It really is though.

    • Which one are you leaning more towards?

  • Enjoy it all that says is he is highly attracted to you and that he has deep connection with you too.

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