Boyfriend is too rough during sex?

he’s so rough it feels like I’m going to release my Bowels when we do doggy style he always jams his penis inside of me and In the past there has been times where he has slipped out of me and tried to jam his self back into me causing me to bleed that hasn’t happened in a while when I tell him he’s too rough he doesn’t listen and insists that I like it rough but I don’t how do I get him to stop being so rough while we are having sex
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  • First, tell him to use lube. If you are bleeding, it sounds like you are dry. Go see your gynecologist.

    Second, get him to stop watching rough sex porn. Romantic Soft Core Porn will show him the softer side of sex.

    Also, start insisting on being on top, that way you are in control.

    Boyfriend is too rough during sex?

Most Helpful Guys

  • First of all. You got a bigger problem, he doesn't care what you ask from him. Fix that one with having a serious conversation with him. Next, masturbate together while watching some gentle romantic porn so he sees how enjoyable that is. And if you aren't wet while getting penetrated, extend the foreplay and/or use lube. If the extended foreplay didn't work, see a doctor. If he is still that aggressive, dump him

  • Just sit him down like the boy that he obviously is, explain in very clear simple terms (use short words) that he is wrong to do it, he listens to what you say or there is no more sex and you are finished.

    Its really simple he respects you and actually learns how to have sex with a girl or he becomes very single.

Most Helpful Girl

  • This is a red flag dear. I got 2 ideas Tell him ur literally in pain if he downplays that then it's time to get rid of him. Or Tell him let me show u how I want to be fukd... and put it on him. If he doesn't respond well or tries to pursue w rough sex... also a indicator he only wants his needs met.

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  • Tell him you do not consent to having rough sex with him anymore, or at all until he changes his ways and values your opinion (as he should) since you are his girlfriend.

  • Your problem is larger than just the sex. He doesn't care what you want and he doesn't care if what he does hurts you, and he doesn't respond to what you tell him. If you stay with him for years, do you think this problem will get better or worse?

  • Dump his ass. You do not deserve to be treated like that. He will not change and you have already asked him. You deserve a lot of pleasure (not pain and bleeding) during sex. You deserve great orgasms. You can do way better.

  • I gotta make him stop. Sex is 4 both of u to connect

  • Tell him that you're no longer going to have sex with him unless he knocks the rough stuff on the head.

  • Be brave and tell him you're not comfortable with pain during sex and you need him to be gentle. If he doesn't respect your wishes he needs to find a new girlfriend that likes it rough.

  • did you take your time to talk to him about this while you're not having sex?

  • Talk to him about that

  • Enjoy it

  • Can you able to feel dick hitting your cervix?

  • Tell him to take it easy on you