Boyfriend lied about being on OnlyFans?

Question

Please may I have some brutal honesty here. Boyfriend has an OnlyFans account. I have absolutely no issue with him going on normal porn sites, however OnlyFans is more intimate and he has nude videos from female friends on there. I told him I wasn’t comfortable with him going on there and asked if he could delete his account. He said yes. However, I have just found out that he lied about deleting it. He reckons it is okay. I feel like these poxy videos mean more to him than I do now and am really not happy that he has lied about deleting his account! He is a lovely boy most of the time, but I’m not happy with the dishonesty and after I found out that he has lied he wanted to break up. What do we do please?

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

It's your choice. You can accept that he has an OF account, which is really just pay for porn, or not. You no longer trust him. Weigh the positives and negatives and decide. A group of random strangers can give you advice, but please don't blindly follow it.

Red_Arrow · Accepted Answer

He lied to you and will not hesitate to lie again. Now he wants to break up when you are the one who has a good reason to dump him. Get rid of him and find someone you can trust.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

"after I found out that he has lied he wanted to break up"

He wanted to break up after HE lied? Wow. Seems like he doesn't think your worth him deleting the OF account. You're better off moving on to someone else. Besides, you can't trust a liar.

SnakeBoop · Accepted Answer

So he lied to you about something you found important. Get rid. he doesn't respect you at all if he said he'd do something and then didn't.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

That is time to break up and move on.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Sounds like you should break up.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I think you should break up with him

boggboss · Answer

Decide if u want to stay or not it dont matter if sometimes or mist the time it's good if u are nit happy end it

Agape93 · Answer

Break up

DavidRaul · Answer

Its best you break up. He can't be trusted. He doesn't respect your opinion. He shouldn't have lied in first place, he should have been upfront about not wanting to delete the account

Agagagagaga · Answer

Why are you monitoring what websites your boyfriend goes to? It’s not like doing that is going to stop him from looking at porn by the way.

genericname85 · Answer

so he's paying to see some chick naked. so what? this isn't "intimate". he has no emotional connection at all to the girl. he doesn't know her. he doesn't talk to her. he doesn't meet her. so it's just like paying for pornhub.

Twalli · Answer

If he still has aex with you when you want to there's no problem with him having it. He did lie, but the problems arise when he chooses something else over you.