Boyfriend lied about cumming inside of me? During sex he said he did, but today he said he lied and that he was just testing me?

We've been having unprotected sex all month via pull out method. However, 3rd week of the month we had unprotected sex and he did not pull out at all. I took the pill a few hours later. Two days later, we had unprotected sex again. I did not see him pull out the first time, he kept going. However, the second time he pulled out. It's only been 3 days since I took the pill and I've been feeling weird lately and emotional. Could be pms because my monthly cycle is supposed to be 11 days away. I told him I've been feeling weird lately and I'm nervous because he came a second time. He said I shouldn't because he didn't and he was just testing me to see my reaction. He was kind of drunk and he has bad memory but he claims he remembers every second of it. Should I still take a pregnancy test? I'm angry because he said he tested me but I'm still nervous. Why would he lie and say he did but didn't in the end?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • No matter what, you should take a pregnancy test. You guys had unprotected sex many times, now that is already risky. Even a condom can break, but less riskier than not wearing condoms. And there's also a slight chance that the pill doesn't help. Plus, he might not even be able to tell if he's cummed in you or not. Some guys can pull out late without knowing or even cum a bit without knowing. So just take one after youve missed the week that your period was supposed to be due. There is also a chance that you're not pregnant too, it can be the pill thats messing with your hormones and period cycle. Your stress too. But just take the test in case if you do miss your period. Maybe he did cummed in you thats why he didn't pull out. A guy would keep going until he's ejagulated.

    • He seemed to know what he was doing during those multiple times pulling out. I dont know why he lied to me that night during intercourse. But then just told me he lied and wanted to see my reaction and that was it.

    • Ok but pregnancy can happen still. there's plenty of women who got pregnant having unprotected sex, even when their guy pulled out. Maybe he is telling the truth, or maybe he did cummed in you, who knows. Whenever i want a break from my ex boyfriend, hed use it as a threat to me that i should be on the look out to see if im pregnant or not since we tend to have unprotected sex. And if i am, dont come to him because he won't help me since i already broke it off.

  • No matter what I say take the test to be safe. It's better to know for sure

  • Are you on birth control or are you referring to the plan b pill?

Most Helpful Guys

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    He is bullshitting. You and he know he came all up in that. Your playing with fire with the "pull out method". You need to tell him your not spreading your legs unless he has a condom on or you get a contraceptive. Right now your freaking out because you won't feel any affects of pregnancy 2 days later. I would wake a to see if you get your period if not then take a test.

    • Even if we had unprotected sex in the beginning of the month too? I'm worried about that too. I'm concerned with his constant bull and lies. I'm going to talk to him face to face about this.

    • I thought you took that plan b pill? You should be ok after taking that.

    • We did it multiple times in the beginning of the month on pull out method. I only took plan b when he ejaculated in me that one time.

  • Kind of irresponsible to not be on the pill or use condoms. I guess your trying to tie him down with a kid.

    • Nah. He's the one that keeps talking about kids and I stop him saying we don't have condoms. So I'm not trying to tie anyone down. Thanks.

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  • Time to cut him off from sex for a while, then say "I was just testing you."

  • How did you not feel him cumming in you if he did?

  • Yes go and take it.

  • I'd take an EPT to know one way or the other. Men shouldn't lie about this.

  • you can feel when he cums inside you so I don't know how you don't know about that but I think you should take the test.