Boyfriend loves biting me during sex? Hiding bite marks and bruises?

He like to brand me, claim me and own me... I love it too - it’s just so animalistic and primal, and it gets me so hot even just thinking about it... With that said however, afterwards it kinda looks like I’ve been abused... I’ll have bruises everywhere, on my arms, neck, back, boobs, butt 😉 How can I hide these from my friends and family and work? Does any one else love biting and how do you hide your deviant sexual practises?
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  • It's probably easiest to hide them under your clothes. You can cover them up with makeup, but it's a lot of work and won't look natural.

    You could perhaps sign up for a sport that likely results in bruises, that way you'll have a good excuse - just make sure it's something that makes sense. :P

    You could also say that you're on blood-thinning medication (even if it's a side effect), this would result in bruising easily, however, if you have finger-shaped bruises on your neck for example that explanation may not help or may sound like you're covering up abuse.

    So if you don't want to be open about it, cover them with your clothes or find a way (sports would be best) to get more bruises that can be explained, alternatively, try to make them disappear fast (cool them and try arnica ointment. Or ask your GP/pharmacist for advice - you can still claim the bruises are caused by sport. Or just be honest. They've heard it all before!)

  • Tell him he is only allowed to leave marks where your bra and underwear will cover them.

    For now, it's turtleneck city and maybe no visit to the gym.

    Part of the fun of our private taboo sex lives is keeping them private. You don't want people to be alarmed you're being hurt, and you don't want to have to keep explaining why you aren't - whether you just make up a story or tell the truth.

  • I say talk to him about keeping it to places that clothes cover, this is what I've done in the past.
    I have had it where I've looked like a walking bruise and i bruise easily anyway however I just prefer to not have to think about it all and them bit hidable places

    • lol but there are some sweet places to bite which u can't hide

    • I know it's just so frustrating having to hide them lol

    • lol yeah some girls use makeup to hide them but its very hard to hide a love bite specially on cleavage lol

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Just make sure it's done in places you can hide. It's normal as long as it's consensual I know I absolutely love biting

  • You have to set rules that he can only bite on areas that won't be exposed.

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  • Get him a teeth guard.

  • There are a lot of concealers meant for covering tattoos, but they're pretty expensive. You should ask him to keep the mars places where you can easily hide them

  • Ask him to keep it to places you can cover.

  • Tell him you love it but to bite and bruise you only where your clothes cover it.
    Do your family and friends and co-workers actually see your boobs, back, and butt?

    • Not my butt, but the tops of my boobs and back yes...

    • Well, like I said, tell him to “brand” you where it can’t be seen. Hopefully he can respect that.

  • My Fiance does the same thing to me and I like it also. I hide my marks with makeup, scarves anything really. You have to be creative with it.