Boyfriend loves pegging and has now asked for a penis shaped gag. Should I be worried?

Boyfriend loves pegging and has now asked for a penis shaped gag for whenever I tie him up in bed. He swears he's straight and he only wants the gag to keep him more quiet (since we live in an apartment building and he gets kinds loud). Is there anything to worry about or is it just me overthinking?
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  • 'has now asked for a penis shaped gag'

    That sounds strangely specific. I don't think you would be here asking this question if he just asked you to buy a gag.. but a penis shaped one? I'd see that as a subconscious desire being expressed... I think you already know what that is.

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  • Sound bi to me. I'll bet he would love to suck dick and get pounded by a guy. He might not be willing to acknowledge it to himself yet.
    But he apparently likes you and you are willing to fulfill his desires. So it's up to you if you are comfortable with being a bi guy's guy; dominant to his submission.

    • Well said. It’s jus my conservative views leave me with to each is own but I don’t need to know.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No. But if you're not comfortable with that you are well within your right to set boundaries of exploring his kinks

  • Well I say ur NOT overthinking it I would def have some reservations.

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  • yes... very

  • I’m thinking that you are making a lot of gay men jealous…And, I imagine they would want to know your secret. And, I woukd imagine that want you B-tches to leave their B-tches alone‼️

  • He’s interested in real penises.

  • Let us assume he tells you tomorrow that he is bisexual. What will your reaction be?

  • Well if i were you, i would be scared from that oops

  • Well if he was gay he just be having a man fuck him in the ass but he isn't. I would admit it's a bit weird that he would want a penis shaped gag though, maybe he's a bit bi.

  • More and more people are coming around to the idea of prostate stimulation. I'm not about to go spelunking but more power to whomever does. A couple early life prostate exams for medical reasons has discouraged further exploration haha.

  • It doesn't mean he's gay. It doesn't mean he's not. The only thing that matters is how you feel about it. Are you enjoying it?

  • You're over thinking. He's just kinky. That's all.

  • What are you worry about

  • I mean pegging is definitely a red flag kink in my opinion. A penis shaped gag is really pushing it. He may not be gay, but I wouldn’t say that’s normal straight behavior. 🤷🏼‍♂️

  • Communicate with him and ask him what he truly wants to achieve (Fantasy, fetishes, and etc) or what he honestly want to explore on daily basis plus also be aware of certain signs because what you practice can lead to other sexual paths.

  • That depends on the dynamic. Closely monitor and you'll know when it (if it ever will) has gone wrong.

  • sounds like he could be bisexual and just not full notice it yet.

  • Try other kinds of gags first.
    If he just wants to be quieted down, there are many that are not shaped like bananas that could still work.

  • Get rid of him

  • You should fuck his ass, pegging is very kinky and fun

    • You are overthinking it

  • Yes, Id say so, lol.

  • He may just be into gay stuff but who knows

  • No
    most guys love pegging it’s normal

    • Ikr, my wife fucks my ass often

    • I don't think it's the pegging that has left her wondering... it's the penis shaped gag (never even heard of those).

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