Boyfriend loves to eat my pussy. How do I stop him?

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My boyfriend loves to go down on me and has did it for hours at a time and not wanted anything in return. He knows I am trying to move away from clitoral orgasm's and work on trying to achieve a vaginal one. I've asked him to stop, even put my hands down there when he tries but he overpowers me and still does it. Is there any way to get him to stop?

broadsword · Accepted Answer

I understand this fully i have the same desire and extreme enjoyment of giving head.
Try this take control offer it as a ttreat. Tell him you want certain things first then you will give yourself over to him willingly. Even offer to sit on his face and do things to allow him to enjoy eating you out but you need him to give you what you want first.

LibraPisces66 · Accepted Answer

Sounds like he doesn't respect you or your desires. Only you can say "enough", and put your foot down with absolute force and resolve. Let him know there's no more sex if he isn't on board, and mean it. Period. You deserve to be heard and have your wishes honored. If not... he needs to go find someone else.

Kiwedin · Accepted Answer

Wow, I'd love it if my boyfriend was like that haha. But it's pretty simple, just sit him down and talk to him about it. He probably thinks you love it and want it and that you're only acting like you don't. Be serious with him, tell him what's up. If he still wants to be down there, tell him to finger you instead.

Scartissue · Accepted Answer

Let him see the vaginal sex like more of an task or something haha. Like you let him eat you out the next time if he tries giving you a vaginal orgasm now

Account · Accepted Answer

People never seem to be satisfied with what they have... Ah greed... Anyway, discuss it with him.

Dani78 · Answer

That is sex assault because you said no. I would dump him. He doesn't listen or respect you.

zorro8888 · Answer

Lol a girl declining oral, this is interesting haha Just tell him how important it is to you, if that doesn't work then stop putting yourself in a position where it's easy for him to do it.

Mesonfielde · Answer

Heh, I wouldn't want him to stop. You would regret it on the long term. Try to achieve both.

TadCurious · Answer

Seriously, your boyfriend has given you oral sex for multiple hours at a time? Without breaks? All in one long session?

zombiebabe · Answer

is there anything wrong with it? he just really loves to eat you out

abundantlyrich · Answer

Dont shower eever.

Antizzl · Answer

Don't wipe anymore

Bandit74 · Answer

It's always funny when I see a post like this.

Here you are wanting your boyfriend to give you oral LESS OFTEN and then there's the posts where girls say they want their boyfriend to give them oral MORE OFTEN.

Why can't we ever be happy? 😣

lonleyfirefighter · Answer

I would soooo eat my way to your heart. But once you want me to stop, then stop it is.

meatballs21 · Answer

Anyone who doubts that women are never satisfied, here is your proof. Guy gets his girlfriend off all the time, and she wants him to stop. SMFH.

Skadouchebag · Answer

If you want to try vaginal orgasms, then just tell him to massage your g-spot with his tongue.

hypno-trip · Answer

Givin head is the easy way to give a girl an orgasm. Vaginal sex actually requires sm body coordination and work so maybe he just wants to stick with the easy way out. Attack his manhood and say if he can't give you a vaginal orgasm he's not really a sexually capable male.

Turendot · Answer

why not have both? you should be so lucky

CT_CD · Answer

get him to lick your butthole

Dave4peter · Answer

you are a lucky girl.. so don't try to stop it... fell it !!!

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like my perfect guy, maybe just ask him to help you vaginally by fingering you, I don't know I wish I had someone who wanted to go down on me for hours