Boyfriend & Married friends?

My boyfriend of 1 year is asking me to have an orgy with his best friend and the wife.

They keep texting each other jokingly about switching partners.

At first it was awkward. But now, it has become annoying. Everytime we are drunk, my boyfriend and his male friend keep texting about an orgy. It had became a huge argument the last time my boyfriend asked me about it. And ever since then I haven't been asked about the orgy.

Why is my boyfriend and his friend like this? Should I just do the deed and call it a day? Or what else? I know I'm not sleep with the married couple. No.
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Superb Opinion

  • Give it a little time and see if your view softens. If not, stand your ground. Does he get lots, and I mean LOTS of sex from you?

    • Yes. We're pretty pretty sexually healthy and active. I "think" he wants it to go to the next step?

    • What is it about swapping that you find so averse?

    • 1. They're married. 2. Is it gonna be awkward later? 3. His wife is very "bitchy" his friend is a flirt. 4. They dont seem to be private with these things. I can't trust anyone

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  • You're boyfriend shoulds like a very shitty boyfriend, you deserve much better than to be treated so poorly. It's not right that he's forcing you to do something that you're clearly not comfortable with. If were you I'd leave him and find someone better.

    There are much better men out there than that in this world.

    • I knew it. Coming from another friend like you, I'm hearing that my boyfriend is super shitty. And I need to stop him and this relationship. But I care for him, I like him. I dont need him. But it's also nice to have a male friend.

    • From what you wrote about him It sounds like he dose not have the same caring for you, as you have for him, A guy that really cares about his girl never forces things like that on his girl. And there are many better males that friendships can be created with. :) It's ok to care for someone, but if they become that forceful and manipulative, than it may be time to change things.

    • I see it too. Now I do. He doesn't care for me. He is pretty demanding and manipulative. I called him out on it this past weekend. I need things to change yes, but its gonna be so hard for me.

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  • That’s an abomination act stay completely away from all those people and get rid of your boyfriend

    • Get rid of him? How would I break up with him or should I ghost him?

    • No you tell him exactly why 100% and you say I’m not gonna have it and I don’t approve of it and how dare you ask me for something like that. I didn’t know you were that type of a person goodbye

    • Okay. Next time he ask, I will definitely do this.

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  • Find a new boyfriend. One that isn't a creep.

    • I know I'm not crazy if I thought the same thing. Its creepy