Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Boyfriend put a finger in my bum whilst I was asleep, feel really weird about it?
vconfused Xper 2
So last night I woke up at god knows what hour because I was hurting from my anus. After a while put two and two together and realised what had happened, boyfriend had put a finger in there whilst I was fast asleep and I must’ve woken up fully just as he took it away. I wasn’t facing him (obviously) and honestly did feel like crying and still do if I think about it too much. It’s not nice to wake up in pain, especially when it was inflicted by someone you love :( I confronted him and he denied it at first but the way he just sat there whilst I was asking questions staring gave it away and he did eventually admit he did it. I asked how long he did it for and he said not long at all because i woke up and I asked how far and he said a tiny bit but kinda confused how he managed to hurt me so much down there by doing that? He doesn’t seem sorry to be honest and has just gone about doing his own thing now.. That’s why I’m here, kinda need to vent and kinda want opinions. Feel weird about feeling upset about this, feel like I’m overreacting? I don't know :(
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What Girls & Guys Said
9 19It’s sexual assault--but the real term is to mess with your psych have you mentally unstable and insecure about yourself find yourself ask questions and eventually feel like you need him …. It’s a pimp tactic used on a pimp once a pimp is choose or a jailhouse tactic or a insecure man or woman tactic, man get targeted too and never knew for sure
1. It’s a mental warfare within yourself (mind body movements
2. It’s meant to keep you with him connected
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I think your boyfriend is all in sex
Not something to be done while asleep. Here is two suggestions:
1. Wait for him to fall asleep once and grt a cucumber, lubricate that bitch and slide it in his bum hole lol.
2. Tell him you kind of liked it. And next time drink a protein shake before bed to get a runny stomach and as he insert his finger up your tight ass, shit all over his hand lol.
Result. Lesson learnt, never again.
It hurt because he did not use lube, I guess.
Why not try it for real? With lube?