Last time he was able to cum was 2 months ago. He said our sex life is stale and I’m too plain and not kinky enough that’s why he hasn’t been able to. I give him blowjobs every night. I try to surprise him with lingerie and dirty nudes but it’s not enough he’s still so bored he said. I tried to be kinky recently and sent him a few public nudes and even a titty pic in a local bar. He didn’t think it was kinky. What should I do to spice things up?
Let me get this straight: he's having a sexual problem, and blames you. He claims that your sex life is stale; what has he done to improve it? Has he tried anything, or even suggested anything? He says that you're too plain; has he told you what he'd like you to do differently? Style your hair, wear a Starfleet uniform, speak only in rhyme, whatever? You say you're trying things, but he says it's insufficient; does he say what more he wants?
Because if he's not telling you, or putting effort in himself, then what you should do is call him out on it. If what he's experiencing is a medical problem, then it's not your fault (unless you whacked him in the crotch with a sledgehammer or something, but I'm guessing that's not the case), and if what he's experiencing is a psychological issue, then at worst that's only slightly your fault, and it's up to him far more than you to find a way to fix it. Now, since you're together with him, part of the onus of that falls on you, but it sounds like you're doing your part- I'm only getting one side of the story, here, but it very much sounds like he's the one who needs to up HIS game.
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LOL dump him that’s how you will spice things up go find yourself a guy that would love every second with being with you because he clearly isn’t the guy for you , if a girl sucks my dick every night and wore sexy lingerie for me , she would be a girl I would keep by my side as much as possible and I would do my best to show my appreciation and love to her , so you are clearly dating a guy that only cares about himself that only values himself , He doesn’t value you period , he just likes the convenience of you , he will keep you around until someone he feels is better for him comes into the picture , if he hasn’t already , you are giving yourself to someone that doesn’t want to give back the same in return , realize you deserve better than that. He is clearly stringing you along by saying you can’t make him cum that everything is your fault , the truth is it’s his fault by trying to play a victim when really he is just a selfish POS , Do yourself a favor and kick him to the curb where he belongs , Value yourself worth and realize you deserve better than that , A girl like you is a girl I would so keep by my side
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I don't think it's your fault at all. There's some underlying health issue here that is perfectly treated. I once dated a man who had delayed ejaculation but he always assured me it was not my fault. We would have long sex sessions and he just wouldn't cum his penis would stay hard the whole time and he was visibly aroused but he just couldn't finish a lot of times. It can be very frustating. I think it's wrong of him to say it's your fault. Did you ask him if this had happened before with other women? In case you want to spice things up ask him what kind of things he expects and wants you to do.
0 0 0 0You should end it!
No idea what he is looking for but he is basically saying he is cheating cause he feels your boring!
Doing that is not kinky it will get you in trouble! Run!
Stop giving him things cause he is so greedy not giving you anything! When was the last time you came? He is. A child making you do things for him and not doing anything for you!
He is a big friend not a husband you can find a much better one!
Imagine if you were married or engaged he would force you to do so much worse things!
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9 24he could be gay not that there's anything wrong with it... but if your doing that for him and he's not loving it... loving it... he may be that... sorry to say
0 0 0 0he is the problem not you, ask him what is your idea of kinky then?
1 0 0 0Play games.
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/ sexual-health/a54411-need- some-excitement-in-the- bedroom-are-you-willing-to- take-a
0 0 0 0The only thing you need to do is leave him. If he is giving you comments like that now then it is only going to get worse. Cut your losses and run.
0 0 0 0You most likely would need to end the relationship since it seems like the two of you just aren’t sexually compatible.
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