Boyfriend sent me a dick pic and its small. I promised to sleep with him but im turned off. Do I have to go through with it?

Before he was so charming and handsome and I was so turned on but after he sent the dick pic its like he's just some little boy.

Updates:
8 mo
Look he's a great guy but he's got a baby penis.
8 mo
I thought the rumour about Indian men being small wasn't true. Its a shame because he's so handsome and successful.
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  • Sadly it's something we just can't change and are born with, unless you have the money for surgery I suppose.

    TBH some girls in my past thought I was going to be bigger since I'm pretty tall and the whole big feet thing, ya it's not true and I'm fairly average. But there is some truth to how the guy uses it that can make up for any shortcomings 😉.

    I would say at least physically touch it and see how it goes with some foreplay or something. If you don't want to have sex then don't. But if it's really so small in a pic then ya it's gonna be small for real and we each have our own standards on what we like, much like guys who prefer big or small boobs kind of thing.

    • It is how a guy uses ot but small is small. A bigger guy who knows how to use it beats a smaller guy.

    • I totally get that! I've had a few girls who were not very tight and it wasn't due to my size. It still worked but not that great. How long have you been dating?

    • Care to pm?

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  • First, you can't "promise" sex. You can always take back your word for this kind of stuff. You never have to go through. What matters is how you feel in the moment, not what you said at any time in the past. No matter how disappointed your partner might be.

    That said, are you sure you even care about this? Are you so experienced about sex that you know from a picture that a dick is not for you? Or maybe you were projecting a fantasy of how a handsome boy is supposed to look like down there. I understand if it's a turn off, but try not to base your attraction to a person only on such a detail, unless you know VERY WELL that you're never going to be compatible with his body.

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  • No. But still you should never ever ever make promises you can’t keep and this is why! Your just gonna have to suck it up and tell him you don’t want to sleep with him. How you choose to is up to you, but that’s the only way your gonna get out of it. You didn’t sign a legal binding contract though so no you don’t have to. It’s either that, avoid him for the rest of your lives, or go through with it. I just really hope you don’t go through with it tho for the sake of your reputation.

  • You don't have to do anything you do not want to do, even if you promised to. There is no requirement to do that.

    Although you might want to end the relationship, but do keep in mind... not all erections are the same same size. Isn't always the same, the more turned on he is, the larger and bigger it can be.

    I had boyfriend who was one size for normal stuff but when I'd want to get way freaky and do stuff he really wanted to do, he would get 20% larger than his average.

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  • You do not ever have to go through with sex even if you said you would. I think you should, but that's up to you. There are other aspects to sex than just penis pemetration, he may be really amazing at giving oral, or fingering. However if for any reason you do not wish to go through with sex you do not have to, mutual consent is the most important part.

  • You can just give him a good head till he cums

    • What about her though

    • Is that what you would do?

    • @Soldieronamission sure

  • It is your body and your choice just don't forget condoms. Maybe just get him naked and check things out and just give him a handjob to see how things go. Perhaps the angle of the picture changed your view. Maybe teach him how to gibe you great orgasms first with his tongue and see how that works.

  • Maybe it just looked small in the pic

    • Maybe it's still soft and not full erect

  • Omg what a deal breaker! Is this a trick question? All guys should need to send in their dick pics before they ever get close to a date! Thoroughly vet them.

    10 inches at the very minimum.

  • But wait. First, pictures SUCK at showing size and proportion. Second, what if he's one of those guys who not only is amazing with a smaller dick and equally amazing with tongue, mind, hands, etc? Like, isn't it worth trying? You don't have to go back for seconds.

    • Regarding your updates: have you seen him in person and it is literally small and doesn't give you pleasure?

  • Maybe he’s a grower?

  • Tell him to buzz off. Sending you a penis picture before you go out is idiotic. Great guys, don't send penis pictures before you first sleep with him

  • How small 15 cm? Oh that's average no? Anyway I'll pass

    • So average is no good for you? 20cm where you like to start?

    • @Soldieronamission my boyfriend is above average

    • Again, I don’t care or know but please make my wish come true and post a picture of you

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  • How small are we talking about?

  • Don't do anything you don't want to do, full stop!!
    As we see in todays culture... years down the road you may regret it and hem old boy up on charges... this is not a dig on any current social movements... just the reality of the world here in the US we live in.

  • Just be upfront about it. Truth may hurt but at least you're being honest, you don't owe him anything nor does he. If it turns you off to the point you can't se yourself with him then you shouldn't force yourself to.

  • Maybe he’s a grower instead of a show-er.

  • Oh no I would not

    • You only like big ones?

  • Pictures can be deceiving. Don't judge a book by the front picture

  • Get yourself a guy from the Congo 🇨🇬, I’m guessing they’re your type.

    Boyfriend sent me a dick pic and its small. I promised to sleep with him but im turned off. Do I have to go through with it?
  • Yawn.

  • Pictures can be deceiving

  • No. You don't have to

  • lol thats me im still a virgin and if sex was ever a possibility then the women would just cut me off once they see my ugly bumpy little dick

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