Boyfriend stays up till 8am then sleeps all day?

[Anonymous]

I wish this would stop. We live together. He knows I hate it. He knew I hated it before I even told him I hated it. Which is him sleeping ALL DAY LONG He will wait for my to fall asleep and then watch porn for like 4 hours I'm assuming. From 2am to like 6am. I told him I wanted to have sex before I went to bed... but he said no. But how can I get him to stop doing this shit. He's been sleep all day it's 6 pm like really? And I can't even wake him up. Is he on drugs or what? He's not tired from work he's tired from staying up. He does this every Sunday. All together I spend maybe a hour with him a day now. How do I show him or tell him this is pissing me off. I feel like my time is being wasted.

[AmandaYVR]

Does he do his own thing, and take you for granted, and ignore you in other ways?
How long have you been living together, or been in a relationship together?
Does he work and still pay bills?
Is he eating cannabis edibles that knock him out? Is he pretending to be asleep when you try to wake him? Tickle him or something, to make sure. Or better yet, try giving him a blowjob and see if that rouses him.
Why the hell any man chooses porn and virtual, impersonal, watching sex, over actually having sex with a live person who's into them... man. Well, I wrote a mytake partially about this, so I know why. But it's still sad. Very sad.

[Anonymous]

It seriously sounds like he's on a drug. Are you keeping him sexually satisfied?

[idkwattoputhere]

He denies her sex wen she ask

[Asker]

Most likely a porn addiction...

[idkwattoputhere]

Not necessarily.. bc when do porn when you have someone u plan on living with n they are willing

[Asker]

@idkwattoputhere cuz he's got an addiction to it.

[idkwattoputhere]

Eh why not let her jerk him instead?

[Opinion Owner]

@idkwattoputhere Suck him

[idkwattoputhere]

I'm not against ur view I guess like some debating

[idkwattoputhere]

Just *

[Opinion Owner]

@idkwattoputhere Maybe he doesn't have any desire for her anymore

[idkwattoputhere]

Probably

[idkwattoputhere]

So I think u should ask him about it because ur going to be very pissed at him

[Truthatanycost]

The better question is why did you still move in with him if you already knew this...

He is either deficient in vitamin D, and a whole lot of other minerals, and / or depressed.

[Asker]

No I didn't know before. I knew after 3 months of living with him.

[Truthatanycost]

In that case, you didn't get to know him enough before moving in. You might need to move out again.

[idkwattoputhere]

Tbh I know how u feel.. my ex barely spent time with me.. even though she wanted us to be friends after our break up.. I don't know why I bothered agreeing now I ignore her

[idkwattoputhere]

he's probably texting another girl tho...

[Asker]

Maybe but... I don't know he's pretty trustworthy. Actually incredibly trust worthy.

[Asker]

I highly doubt he's cheating and he wouldn't have time.

[idkwattoputhere]

Well I hope for the best between you to.

[nikooo0ooo]

Unless ur sure he's watching porn, what if he's just playing video games. That's what keeps me up all night.

[Asker]

Well that's the thing. He's doing it as I'm typing his ps4 is on but he asked for his headphones and the screen hasn't moved in like a hour

[JoyGirl]

Leave.

[idkwattoputhere]

I agree..

[bowenw]

He's into porn and not into you. He is disrespecting you and the relationship. It's time for you to move on.

[chriscdi]

he has to be on some kind of drugs or "medication"

[Iron_Man]

You shouldn’t be living together

[Asker]

Why lol

[Iron_Man]

Because it isn’t working out

[Iron_Man]

He’s a porn guy

[pizzalovershouse]

You should tell him in a polite way

[Dave31989]

does he work/?

[Asker]

Yeah hella hours

[Dave31989]

then give him a break

[Asker]

Okay... um I work.. so what about me?

[bklynbadboy1]

I'd leave I'd find something to do

[OddBeMe]

Same here. I had to take ambien to get back on track then I slipped back into nocturnal. weird.

[Valnac]

You told him you don’t like it, yet he does it anyway.
He doesn’t take your threats seriously.
You need to surprise his ass and dump him.
You have wants and needs he’s not fulfilling, you can do better than that.
Teach him a lesson!

[Silent_kisser]

Secret fuck probably at night.

[msc545]

Sounds a lot like depression.

[Asker]

I have it but you know what... your probably right. He said he's got it too. Then again who doesn't..

[msc545]

Righ, Depression is kind of endemic, but not to the extent you described. He sounds very ill.

[Anonymous]

Methamphetamines

[Anonymous]

Why has he messed up his biological clock?

[Anonymous]

Obviously you’re not his top priority. Move on.

[Anonymous]

That's what it was like being married to a nurse.
She worked all night, slept all day and I never saw her cheating ass.
At least your pain in the ass boyfriend is too lazy to go anywhere.

[sexycuddlekitten]

lol I'm too lazy to even move somedays but most of the time I'm either hiking, working, doing stupid shit, gymnastics, locking myself in basements/closets, chasing kids around or swimming

[Opinion Owner]

@sexycuddlekitten Nice. I hope you don't get locked in anymore closets. 😄

[sexycuddlekitten]

good way to keep away from kids and the other annoying people in my house lol

[Opinion Owner]

@sexycuddlekitten I hear ya. 😊

[Anonymous]

You must be pretty ugly if he would prefer to stay up watching porn instead of having sex.

[Asker]

Naw... Im not going to lie it sounds so conceded but my body is probably better than most porn stars and a beautiful face. I could send a pic! Haha

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