Boyfriend suddenly wants to have sex more?

We used to go weeks without it. Sometimes if we are lucky once or twice a week.

Since a few days ago. he's been initating sex everyday and sometimes twice a day!

Whats causes sudden increase of libido in men?
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  • Maybe reduced stress, maybe increased stress, could be he is just in better shape then before or better rested or what have you. Also you tend to want sex more after you get sex i. e. the longer you go without it the longer you can wait to get it. Libido can also ebb and flow, so just enjoy it while it lasts.

    • He has been getting more rest and exercising more

    • That will do it. Both of those boost testosterone levels which itself boosts libido. So chances are that is the case.

Most Helpful Guy

  • He must have seen someone really hot and/or sexy.

    When he orgasms, does he look straight into your eyes or does he close them trying to imagine something? If he closes them, then I've got bad news, he is thinking of someone (or something) else. But if he is there with you in the moment, then I guess you should be proud of yourself (or maybe he just hit puberty)

    • We dont look at eachother when we do. We close ours eyes to experience the feeling better. He has been going to the gym more to get ready for boot camp

    • Maybe he saw a sexy ass at gym. Or perhaps working out kicks in the testosterone

    • Hopefully the second one lol. Would kind of hurt my feelings that i can't make him excited but other people can and he just uses me to get a release.

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  • Sounds like he's had a sexual awakening. Are you bragging, complaining, or what?

    • I was asking a question. Genuinely curious

    • My point was: do you like this higher sex drive of his?

    • I do. But when sudden changes happen- i can't help but wonder. You know?

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  • Don't look a gift horse in the mouth. Just go with it. lol

  • sometimes its the discovery of something new , and sometimes it can really just be mood changes. sometimes stress can drive up your sexual tension , or maybe he's feeling Less stressed and he finally feels in the mood more often?

    • Discovery of somthing new?

    • often a guy will think about a new thing or hear about something and try to get evedy possible chance to act in a way that can satisfy that , not in every circumstance , obviously when its OKAY to do so. But maybe ask him if there's anything new he wanted to try?

  • likely he found some new ideas that really excite him (most likely is through porn).

    is he aaking for new positions?

    wanting new/kinkier things?

    • He doesn't watch porn. He swears by it

    • do you mean he swears he does not look at porn? or something else?

    • We have had the conversation multiple times if he watches it and he always tells me no and explains why. Sometimes he even gets a little upset if i dont believe him. So i finally decided to let it go and trust that he doesn't. He knows how i feel about it and he feels the same way

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  • Honestly it probably isn't an increase. More he has always wanted to do more and probably didn't wanna ask

    • We have been together for 3 years and have been living together for one. I dont think he's shy lol

    • Well then maybe he sees you in a new light. Some relationships can have a honeymoon phase and when its over the relationship crashes. Seems like he's doing just fine and still likes what he sees.

  • I don't know, what have you been wearing (or not wearing) or doing “special” for your boyfriend recently?

    • Nope

  • Porn?

    • He doesn't watch porn. he's told me 100 times

    • We all say that. 😂

    • If he's actually lying.. he lies like a sociopath lol. Extremely believable and will make me feel bad and insecure if I do not believe him... to the point where he will get his feelings hurt and get angry at me for thinking he is lying to me and thinking he's that kind of guy. Etc.

  • I don't know but is that really something to worry about. Its a good thing right?

    • I didn't even slightly imply that I was worried. I was asking what usually causes increase of libido

    • losing a side chick could do this. Or maybe he is taking hormone replacement therapy.