Guys, Boyfriend takes a while to cum, does this mean I not doing it right or something?

Long story short, I don't know if what I am doing is really turning him on because he is the one thrusting into my mouth, even when I suck deep and hard. Does that mean I am just useless? What can I do to improve my blowjob and handjob skills?

He claims I do a good job but I feel I could do better or he is lying.
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  • He could be nervous about cumming in your mouth. If you're okay with it, tell him it's okay ahead of time, give him some encouragement during the BJ, and don't stop stroking and sucking until he completely finishes. If you don't want cum in your mouth, tell him to pull out and cum on your boobs or wherever you prefer. Another possibility is the technique is not quite right for his dick. Ask him what feels best and what doesn't. He may enjoy more licking of the frenulum, tighter lips, or having his balls licked rather than thrusting. If you don't already, try a twisting hand action on the shaft and holding the skin tight at the base of the shaft. A different position may work better for him. If you're on your knees while he stands, try having him sit on a chair, or have him lay on his back with your head between his legs, or have him on his hands and knees with your head under him, or try laying on your back with his knees beside your head, or lay on your back with him over your head.

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  • It can be several reason why he doesn't cum:
    He is anxious
    He is stressedHe is nervousHe doesn't concetrateHe feels unconfortableMaybe he don't want to have a bj, but he lets you suck his dick, because he doesn't to disappoint youMaybe he doesn't feel attracted to youproblem to cum (can take very long for him to cum) Maybe you can't suck dick (probably not) If you want tips, inbox me. I have plenty of tipe for you. Too long to write it all down.

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  • It's on him, not you. You are really generous to allow him to thrust into your mouth. Believe him. If it's taking more time than you can tolerate then you or he will have to finish him manually.

  • It could be that you might be doing it too much to were sensation has been lost.

    Or there is a lack of attraction/romance.

  • i like to thrust in and out

    try using your hands and mouth in and out at the same time, that makes me cum hard

  • Some people just don’t orgasm from oral. I know because I’m one of those people.

  • If he's thrusting into your mouth, then he is turned on and enjoying himself. He still shot his wad, so why feel so negative about it?

  • do u like sucking on it?

  • you're too young to be "settled" down anyway

  • The head of a cock is were the sensitivity is.
    If you just suck and lick the head is enough.
    Also fondle his balls while sucking, all guys like that.

  • Some of us take longer than we actually would like to. Be glad he's not a one minute man

  • too short or too long - both subjected to disease.

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