Boyfriend thinks its funny and cute to give me titty twisters?

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately, I've done it back on him and it doesn't nearly have the same effect. What would you do/

[Prettygurl12]

I second the punching suggestion lol

When words don't work, fists get the point across real fast.

If you don't like them then tell him to knock it off. If he doesn't he obviously has no respect for you.

*The punching option is a semi-joke. Punching people is almost always frowned upon due to social constructs. However, in the non-joking side of things, life is one big episode of recess and back in elementary school if Bob punched Joe because Joe was mean, Joe typically stops being mean :p

[Asker]

punch him in the face? lol

[Prettygurl12]

Hey, if that's what it takes :p As long as the hitter keeps in mind that by choosing to hit another person they have essentially signed a contract that says that the other person can then hit them back. This especially applies to a female hitting a male.

[Asker]

yeah see thats the problem, he is so much stronger than me, there's no way I can actually do any damage on him

[bubbiexo]

Hit him with a side fist in the chest. Make sure that the bony part of your wrist makes contact... My boyfriend coaches MMA fighters so its impossible to hurt him, but one time he was trying to wrestle me and I got him with the side fist, and he admitted it actually hurt lol. He doesn't wrestle me anymore.

[Asker]

but I've punched him as hard as I could in the stomach before and he just laughed it off, he is made of steel

[Prettygurl12]

Let's not have a public discussion about hypothetically hitting guys. The guys won't like it. You could also try to sit him down and politely explain that you don't like it. Or when it happens you could get a deep barky voice and surprise him to a stop - works with horses. :P

[Asker]

Yeah I dont want to hit him, maybe pull his ball hair, but thats the worst lol

[bubbiexo]

Ask him to stop, nicely and rationally. If he refuses, punch him in the chest really hard and say, "oh, I'm sorry, I thought it would be funny and cute"

[Asker]

punch him? dont u think thats a little extreme?

[bubbiexo]

Titty twisters hurt, a lot. I don't think that hitting him in the chest is extreme at all. It's not like I said to kick him in the balls or something. THAT would be extreme.

[Asker]

I was thinking the like pull on one of his ball hairs lol

[bubbiexo]

Lmfao that's just torturous!

[Asker]

I wax all the time it can't be THAT bad

[harakiri]

Oh my god... OMG. WHAT THE HELL! I feel the sudden urge to cover my boobs lol. That must hurt...so badly... Hit him over the head with a frying pan.

[Asker]

should I pull his ball hairs out?

[islands7]

You end the together time, get in car and wait for an apology.
No bluffs, no false moves, just go.
After a few times, you'll see him try to work this to his own advantage (he didn't want to be there anyway) or see if can say (sorry to keep from leaving.. but no, you don't stop once your move is on), then he's consequences are carved in stone and really not worth it. He'll save those titties for special attention in private.

[SüßeJäger]

Knee him in the nuts and laugh. Tittie twisters hurt guys, I can't imagine what it does to a girl. Maybe its time to throw him out and buy a new one.

[MaskedSanity]

Your boyfriend is a bit twisted, if he thinks hurting you is funny and cute. :V

[Asker]

I know, and he is always like, cmon it can't hurt that bad because he lets me do it on him and it doesn't bother him

[MaskedSanity]

It doesn't matter how much it affects him. What matters is that it hurts YOU and you shouldn't let him treat you like that. I can understand doing it once or twice as a joke, but if this behaviour is constant, I would have kicked his teeth in by now.

[Asker]

hah, well I don't think starting a physical fight would end well for me, he is 10X stronger than me lol

[MaskedSanity]

Why should his strength matter? He's disrespecting you, ignoring your request to stop and saying it's not that bad as though everyone on the planet has exactly the same pain threshold. He sounds like a moron, to be honest. Sorry.

[Asker]

just saying like I couldnt just go kick his teeth in, I'm punched him as hard as I could in the stomach and he just laughed it off

[MaskedSanity]

I wasn't actually promoting violence. What I'm saying is that you need to make your point clear and if he doesn't understand that, then he clearly has no respect for you. Draw a line. If he oversteps his boundaries, you can always kick him to the curb.

[Asker]

yeah but I really like him, I just wish giving him a titty twister would have the same effect so he would know how it feels

[MaskedSanity]

He's your boyfriend for fuck's sake, he should take YOUR WORD for it. If it annoys you and you asked him to stop, yet he carries on, is it really worth investing your emotions into a man, who clearly doesn't respect you? What else will he do in the future that he deems to be "not that bad"?

[Asker]

yeah I guess ur right, I've thought about pulling out his ball hairs, but that might be too extreme

[MaskedSanity]

By all means, if you think that will work. Then again, you expressed concern about him being much stronger than yourself, so would that really be a good idea? He might view it as an invitation to twist your tits some more. :/

[Asker]

why do guys think that is funny?

[MaskedSanity]

I personally haven't met a guy, who thought inflicting pain onto others was funny.

[cavmanier]

Tell him no boom boom? Lol

[Levin]

Go to a decent martial arts class, preferably one that teaches Iron Palm. Punch him in the nose. Dump him.

[Ezio1981]

Do you like titty twisters? If not then say so. I can't imagine guys liking titty twisters. That shit hurts!!

[Mesonfielde]

"Please don't do that, it hurts."

[Lonesomecowboybill]

If he doesn't knock it off, give him a painful wedgie, that'll send a message.

[COCOCHANEL]

keep a straight face and tell him you don't like it, how it makes you feel and that you are serious and want him to stop. then give him the silent treatment.

[MyInternetUserName]

Respond by giving him an Indian burn or wet willy

[Anonymous]

I could understand tickling you if he did that but titty twisters thats like you punching him in the balls. its not funny.