Boyfriend told me my vagina is loose?

I was a virgin until we had sex a few months ago. He can barely even get it in without sweating so I don’t know what he means by it is loose.

I have small fingers but just about manage two fingers when completly aroused and there is a firm squeeze around them so I don’t know what he means.

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  • did you try squeezing down on him? like either tryng to push him out or do the thing you do when you try to hold your pee as you have to pee really bad.

    if that's still too loose for him, i'll just go ahead and assume he's doing titan grip masturbation which made him grow used to way too much pressure that no vagina could ever do for him.

  • Sounds like he's the issue and blaming you or embarrassed about his size. Or he's flogging the dolphin too much and he's losing sensativity. Or you lubricate really well

    In any case your fine I'm sure

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  • I don’t think it has to do with it being tight or loose - wetness is an important factor.
    Based on my own experience, girls who are extremely tight (probably can only fit 1 or two fingers usually) can feel “loose” if she gets extremely wet and aroused during sex.
    There have been occasions where too much wetness can lead to reduced feeling and pleasure for men. Think: more friction (of course not too much) = more stimulation. If a vagina is soaking and dripping wet, it would feel loose and less pleasurable.
    Let me know if you have further questions.

  • Means he is an asshole and you need to leave him. This can't be for real.

  • The statement from him is stupid. What he propably meant by that is that your muscles in that area (i don't know what they are called in English) aren't that trained. I don't think he thinks that you aren't tight but rather that your muscles don't give much resistance against penetrating deeper. It's hard to give an explanation that is understandable but overall i think he means that your vagina is tight but doesn't give a lot of resistance. I hope it is somewhat understandable

  • He is an ass and should not say that.

  • Find someone better.

  • Your boyfriend is an idiot.

  • Yeah he is dumb! You should start messing with him and then at a good hight moment when he is all hot and hard tell him his dick is small and that you want to brake up because he is too dumb to know how to use it right…

  • He's a dummy

  • He's phrasing it poorly, but he's trying to tell you that your vagina isn't squeezing down on him very much

  • Dude must be soy boy.

  • No clue. Doesn't make sense to me.

  • very good way to know that vagina is not loose the vagina allows its own way to enter penis inside I love female vagina because it's good thing for male to have penis inside to warm vagina up because it feelsgood to have penis inside of vagina even male can pee inside vagina to load up sex drive I love sex with girl there is no need to worrie about even rubbing vagina is good to do warm up sex drive too

  • Ohhh you are fine he just does no it know he saying

  • Tell him you got tiny dick.

  • He’s a jerk

  • Time to find a new boyfriend.

  • If you've been having sex with him for a couple months and can still barely fit two small fingers, you're not loose, he's small.

    He's probably using the narcissist tactic of breaking down your self-esteem to keep you under his thumb. Does he make other comments about you that are negative and suggest you're unworthy?