Boyfriend took a picture of us in bed and sent it to his parents?

I’m kinda annoyed about this. We were in bed just after we woke up and he took out his phone and took a selfie of us. I had no clothes on apart from a blanket I was using to cover myself. You could see my bare upper body and it was pretty clear I was naked under there. He sent it to his parents.

I’m pretty annoyed about this. I want the bedroom to be our one private place. How would you guys have felt about this?

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Superb Opinion

  • It's understandable that you feel uncomfortable and violated by your boyfriend taking and sharing a photo of you in bed without your consent. Your bedroom should be a private space where you feel safe and comfortable, and it's important for your partner to respect your boundaries and privacy.

    It's important to communicate your feelings to your boyfriend and express how his actions have made you feel. Let him know that you value your privacy and that you don't feel comfortable with him sharing intimate photos without your consent. It's possible that he may not have realized how his actions were affecting you, and a conversation may help to clarify your boundaries and expectations in the relationship.

    If your boyfriend continues to disregard your boundaries or makes you feel uncomfortable in other ways, it may be important to reassess the relationship and prioritize your own emotional and physical safety. Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and dignity in any relationship, and that it's important to prioritize your own needs and boundaries.

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  • That violates your privacy. Why would he do that? It's disrespectful by itself to take a picture of someone without asking, let alone take a picture of someone in bed, naked under the covers. I'd talk to him about it and tell him you're upset. Communication in a relationship is important, and maybe he knows you're upset, but doesn't know how much it's bothering you.

    • Yes, he knew I was annoyed at the time but I don’t think he realises I’m still thinking about it. I would never send a picture like that of him in bed to anyone

Most Helpful Girls

  • That is super weird and creepy and I'd be figuring out what's wrong with him

  • It's the parents who should be mad about this.

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  • Why the fuck would he send them to his PARENTS of all people is what I am most concerned about!!! This personal closeness doesn't need to be disclosed with his parents, or anyone else for that matter!

    • Yes tbh I was upset, I wasn’t naked to the eye don’t get me wrong, but it was obvious that I’d woken up not long ago and was naked under that blanket

    • Yeah I understand, if someone snapped a photo of me almost completely naked with just a towel covering to someone they know without asking I'd be concerned too about their lack of judgement and disclosure.

    • Do you think it’s a dealbreaker, or just something to discuss with him?

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  • WHY in the hell would he do that? That is maximum stupid! Yes, the bedroom should be private and sacrosanct and he has violated your trust.

    • Do you think it’s a dealbreaker, or just something to discuss with him?

    • The question is whether this is an isolated incident or a sign of some deeper disrespect for you.

  • WTF. why would anyone send a pic like that to their parents, AND he should have checked with u first.
    all i have to say is weird

  • It is obvious your boyfriend has no brains. A red flag you should consider when thinking about staying with him.

  • Weird. And his parents let him do that?

  • Tell him you are upset about it. This is how you establish boundaries. He might not think much of it at the time.

    Also sending this kind of picture to parents is weird. Why do his parents need to know about you two sleeping together?

  • I'm guessing the guy has image issues with is parents. Maybe they think he's gay. Or at least he's trying to prove to them that he can be a man.

    His means of doing that, though, is poor, and disrespectful to you.

  • I would have been mad. That is upsetting

  • He's got some screws loose. That's not a picture to send to your parents. Is he going to send them a video of you having sex next. I'd really be pissed

    • Yes I was pretty upset:( Do you think it’s a dealbreaker, or just something to discuss with him?

    • Discuss it with him first. If he doesn't think he did anything wrong get rid of him.

  • That was very rude of him.

  • Both my parents have walked in on my girlfriend and me naked in bed together.

  • I took videos but never sent to anybody
    WTF!!

    • Tbh there is no reason to send it

  • What an asshole

  • Tell him it's not okay and hopefully he changes his behaviour.

  • so you're a cheap whore good to know.. so what's next you gonna bang is parents to you slut

  • I would have been pissed. That is just something you don't send to the parents.