Boyfriend tried to facefuck me and got mad I threw up?

[Anonymous]

Long story short… I was giving my boyfriend (a year younger) a blowjob last night, and suddenly he grabbed my head and started to thrust in my mouth. I barely have experience with blowjobs, so you could imagine I also have zero experience with face fucking. The problem is, he didn’t even warn me. He straight up grabbed my head and thrusted in my mouth, which surprised me and caused me to throw up. He got really mad, called me dirty and made me feel bad about myself. My throat hurts and I have felt terrible ever since. He tried to apologize, but I’m not sure what to do.

[RedInnocent68]

OMG! I’m so sorry that happened to you. Unfortunately porn has adversely affected our expectations and sense of decorum. It sounds like he’s gets it, but definitely have the conversation. If he doesn’t, suggest getting a strap on to see how he takes it! You’ll want to understand what he was thinking, expecting, and why. Only you can decide if it’s something you’re interested and willing to do with or for him, and how, if ever, you’re going to work up to it. You might watch porn together to see where his idea came from - and talk about it. You might discover, for example, he has a punishment fantasy and wants to feel powerful. The thought of him having his way with you might turn you on and the conversation becomes, I want you to throw me down, you can call me a whore, hatefuck me as hard and fast as you can, then cum on my face, but don’t touch my mouth. Next time I’m going to sit (tie?) you down, and slowly deep throat you, working up to as fast I can take (or as long as he lasts, which won’t be long 😉) If and when you’re ever ready to let him facefuck you again, tell if he wants to own your pretty little mouth you need to cushion your mouth with your hands to keep control, and as much as you desperately want him, you may have to hold him back if his amazing, almighty cock gets too eager… If it wasn’t apparent, you’ll also need to talk about cumming. It might be better to take the facial, or tell him to cum just inside your mouth where you have some control with your tongue. It’s easy to choke on an excited penis jumping around trying to pump a heavy load into you as deep as it can, and we already know throwing up’s not fun. The most important thing is communication - that you both acknowledge the fantasy, care about each other, and don’t want to hurt or make each other feel bad.

[BadApple69]

To start with you did nothing wrong! Don't blame yourself at all.
Year's ago most guys would know to do such things, but today porn is so easy to find and all guys are watching it.


So here is what I suggest. Talk to the boyfriend, tell him if he wants to try new things you talk about it first. Then come up with safe words or in case of face fuckings a tap on the leg means stop.
Sex is a 2 person event and you both need to be comfortable and enjoy it. YOU ARE NOT DOING THIS JUST FOR HIM... AND HE NEEDS TO GET THAT IDEA OUT OF HIS HEAD!


That's my 2 cents. Good luck!

[Anonymous]

He did that out of nowhere and got mad at you for it? Fuck him, find someone who isn't a terrible boyfriend. If you threw up it was his fault, he shouldn't have done that without asking, you are not dirty for throwing up on his dick he deserved it. Find better, he doesn't respect you

[Zatsuma]

Wow, he deserves to have the same done to him then he can see how it feels. You deserve so much better than that monkey's butt. Dump him quickly.

[DubiousIntentions]

Sounds to me like you need a new boyfriend, because this one is a real dick.

[ShesRad80]

he is a despicable loser, dump him

[CoolCatMar1]

True

[HelpfulWoman]

---- The dude forced his dick into your mouth and didn't expect to make you throw up?

That's a trash partner frankly. Thats a partner who doesn't view you as a person equal to him. Take the hint with this!

[ArrowheadSW]

1. He is probably watching too much porn. 2. He is horribly inconsiderate.

[neilsmart]

apologise again and tell him you promise to improve. ask him to train your throat

[Nifrayu]

Don't listen to this one. She's perverted.

[Gent207-2]

Wow what an asshole

I hope you broke up with him

What you see here are the side effects of porn

[Guffrus]

Don't just dump him you should report him to the police for rape.

[Guffrus]

What the fuck is wrong with everyone here? This is very obviously extremely dangerous criminal behaviour, he should be in a prison. Yes, dump him, obviously but that is not the fucking point we are WAAY past that.

[BoopBoopBeep]

He called you dirty in a good way or a bad way?

Regardless, he should not have sprung that on you. He sounds somewhat amateurish.

[AviatorTom]

Accept his apology. In future, he'll think twice about doing it again.

[Bricealan]

My POV only, but I would dump that stupid son-of-a-bitch in a heart beat. How stupid is this guy to do that, (face fuck you) make you sick enough to vomit and be a REAL HORSES afterward toward you?

You will do what you want no matter what we say, . but that kind of behavior is completely out of line, in anybodies book.

I have ASKED a girl first if it was okay to 'pump' in her mouth before ever doing it, much less grabbing her and doing as you described.

Dump his ass.

[Bricealan]

P. S. you should have kicked him in the balls before he left.

[Nifrayu]

I'm sorry that happened to you. I would find something like this difficult to forgive. It sounds like he placed his need for pleasure over your well being. There's really no excuse for that. And for him to get mad at you is even worse. You didn't do anything wrong. So please try not to feel bad about yourself.

As for what to do. You can leave him. It's understandable after being treated like that. You can forgive him if you still trust him. Do you? I would warn you not to forgive him carelessly. He should have known he was capable of hurting you like that and even if he didn't, getting angry at you after he hurt you is horrible.

[CoolCatMar1]

He sounds like he is egocentric and only cares about himself tbh

[Luckycharms12]

What a dick

[CoolCatMar1]

@Luckycharms12 he is

[Jkgordon]

That’s like forcing you to do a sexual act cut him off and see if that counts as rape! Disgusting esp if he sleeps around or don’t bath regularly.

[Nikki1989]

I would have kicked his ass and dumped him on the spot.

[NYCQuestions1976]

He's an ass. Get rid of him.

[no_feet_pics]

Shouldn't have gotten mad at you for that, be thankful he found a girl that would let him do that and not a prude. The first time a woman asked me to do that and I did it, my whole world was shaken to the core. Usually I got women who's idea of "freaky" was getting on top.

[smilelots]

Yes, you have to be careful with that. I think a lot of people would throw up depending on how far down his cock went into your throat. Maybe he was going too hard maybe you just ate Hopefully he didn’t get mad at you and you are OK. Tell him to take it easy next time so you can both enjoy this.

[LiamJHayden]

He's a jackass. Dump him.

[shades777]

next time dont eat so much

[Twalli]

He was probably caught up in the moment and realized he made a mistake.