I have this problem with my wife. She isn't a cuddled or anything but after she gets hers she just turns over and sleeps. I don't know that it means your boyfriend is using you but it certainly is a level of being inconsiderate to your feelings and post sex needs. There is actually a level of care that should go into post sex interactions, and even more so if its hard rough sex. Either way though there should be intimate interaction. Its not like he's a fuck buddy... he is in fact your boyfriend. But if you haven't had a talk with him about it, that has to be the first step to address the issue. If this wakes him up to your needs, great! If he doesn't change after you might wanna consider someone who will meet your needs.
Post sex etiquette should be adhered to, but he does not have the same energy after sex
I don't think most people have the same energy after how are bodies react to see, but does it truly take that much energy to wrap his arms around you and keep you close against him? Maybe I'm just a cuddle whore but it doesn't take much energy to just cuddle someone.
Yes you don’t need to be a cuddle whore to want some sort of affection/intimacy after sex. He is eager to cuddle before sex (because he knows what it will lead to), but does it reluctantly after it.
If you change sides of the bed will he turn towards you after sex or still away from you. If he turns away and acts like a dick, ask him why he behaves like that.
I think you should talk to him about it. I think it's sometimes normal to be different during sex or sexual activities. But if you want more afterwards then maybe ask him if it'd be ok if you got cuddles or something in bed. Since it makes you feel unhappy when you don't. Partners take care of each other and he needs to know what you need to feel secure after sex.
He doesn’t always do that, so I know he’s capable of doing better, but sometimes it seems that he can’t care enough about my feelings afterwards.
Cumming makes guys sleepy. You want him to cuddle you. Tell him that.
It makes them bad boyfriends too
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New partner, he's using you for sex.
Do you think so?
Yeah, actions never lie. You're saying he looses interest after he is rewarded with sex when he is supposed to be being intimate with you. This tells me he already got what he wanted and he's not interested in building intimacy. I'm not sure what more you need. This is common behavior look out for it. Don't hesitate to move on, their are so many guys out there who actually want to get to know you not just to have sex.
Yes he is not interested in getting closer to me and it has me deciphering and analysing shit and I’m so tired.
Talk to him about your concern
Talk to him, he might get Lesson.
some guys are like that
Did you ask him what the deal is?
Get rid of him and get someone that’s into you!
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