Boyfriend wants gangbang for birthday?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has asked me to do something kinky for his birthday , his suggestions were a gangbang by myself with random guys (I record the video and show him, he doesn’t want to be present). He says he gets off on me being pleasured by other guys.

Um I really don’t know if I want to do it or not, I’m struggling with the idea I’ve only ever been monogamous in a relationship it feels wrong and like cheating to touch another guy. Is this a bad idea?

[DaveJord]

I am conflicted, by this question. Because for you not to be complete repulsed by this idea tells me that on some level you are considering it... so this something you could see yourself doing, maybe even on some level wanting to do it, but then feeling guilty for wanting it maybe?

I mean you need to take him out of the through process and just be honest with yourself. Is this something you really want for yourself? Because if it is then you do not need him. If you only want to do it for him, then that means you want it for him more than for yourself and to me that is not right.

But if the idea of a gang bang excites you, then I would say go for it... but only if it something you want for yourself... and if it is... then cut him out completely.

The one thing I would not do, is record it. I think this would be a very bad idea... unless you want to Onlyfans it. I mean if he wants to share you with other men, then I don't know if I would share that with him, because in the scenario you don't need him, in order to do this. Sharing with him makes him the reason you are doing it. To me that not right.

[richardcory]

Only you can know honestly how you feel about it. Unless you and he are both sure though, I wouldn't recommend it, its the sort of thing that can be a lot less fun in reality than in porn.

Also, not all that easy to find a bunch of guys who are into that

[Anemone978]

Don't let your boyfriend use you as porn.. It is disgusting and he might think he wants it now but what if you go through with it then he thinks differently of you and doesn't want you after.. would it be worth it? I personally would dump my boyfriend if he wanted to slut me out to other men.. because that isn't love..

[Samantha36]

It's quite a common fantasy. It's one of my fantasys but it would break us up. Mu boyfriend has said when he's horny he loves the idea but afterwards he wouldn't be able to deal with it. Its more likely to cause issues than not. Tread carefully

[Paige90]

I think it's a very common fantasy for males and females. I wou;d possibly do it if I didn't know the guys and would never see them again.

[Samantha36]

@Paige90 yes that is what my boyfriend says

[YesterdaysChild]

Sounds like another troll to me. Who would even consider such a proposition but a troll wanting to increase their body count? 👎😫🤣😂

[Asker]

I’m most definitely not a troll, this is legit. I’m torn because I want to please him and he is always saying I’m not kinky and he wishes I was into the same stuff as him. I hate being called boring or not kinky

[YesterdaysChild]

Better not kinky than stinky.

[KarinMcDonald]

If your relationship is not currently an open relationship, then starting it off by being in a gang bang doesn't sound like a good idea to me.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you are feeling bad about this idea without even doing out, imagine how you would feel after you have done it. For him to ask you to do this tells me that he is weird and okay with being selfish. I think you will soon be looking for another boyfriend.

[rachel776]

just get a guy friend to do it and your boyfriend will be happy and you'll only be having sex with one guy

[Paige90]

Good idea

[Anastasia_435]

But the gangbang means alots so

[OfMiceandMen]

Not something I would ever ask my girl to do for my birthday.

Flip side of the coin... maybe he's asking you to do it so he has a reason to let you go? Kind of a trap thing.

[Asker]

No he says he loves me all the time and we’re together 4 years. He’s very happy with me he’s just always been into this , I think he’s seen it in porn and thinks I’d love it and finds it hot. Also some of his friends like it too

[OfMiceandMen]

I figured it was the porn thing. If it's not something you are into, then pass.

[Asker]

I’m not sold on the idea , he keeps telling how we’d both love it but like I’m satisfied with him I don’t need anymore

[OfMiceandMen]

Then he should respect that decision. Even though you are declining, it says a lot about your character and confirms how you feel about him.

[Asker]

He does respect it but he also says I’m not kinky and he wishes I was kinkier and into that kinda thing like him

[OfMiceandMen]

Maybe draw your kinky-line in the sand and go up to it, perhaps that will be enough for him.

[Miristheiss]

RUUUUUUUUUUUN!!!

Any man who is ok with his girl doing that doesn't love her.

You being willing to do that... well, you know what that would make you.

Just get out of this twisted relationship.

[MementoMori777]

Personally I do yea

[Koneko911]

My question is do you want to do it? And if yes, do you want to because you'll enjoy it or because you feel like you have to to make him happy?

[FunkyMonkee]

Not much of a boyfriend, is he?

[Asker]

Why do you say so?

[FunkyMonkee]

If he was, you'd be quite enough for him!

[Spade_01]

Your boyfriend has no self respect left. Very pitiable situation smh...

[bowenw]

I suggest you only do it if you are totally comfortable doing it and you can set the rules for what is permitted. I would be very careful with the video, for example will you show it to him and then permanently delete it? If not, do you trust him to never share it with anyone even if the two of you were to break up?

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Nooooo. I would be insulted and you should dump him for his birthday.

[stratford]

Does the thought of being gang banged turn you on?

[Soldieronmission]

Pretty sure it does, she's not saying otherwise.

[Unit1]

This is something you will need to decide for yourself. Your cuckold boyfriend has basically given you permission to be promiscuous. Whether to exercise it or not is up to you. If you want to do it, then do it. If not, then don't. That's the point.

[Iron_Man]

That’s horrible don’t ever do that

[Asker]

Why? He says it’s a fantasy of his

[Iron_Man]

That’s not a relationship it’s absolutely awful so immoral being shared from guy to guy all at the same time that’s complete humiliation and disgusting. You should leave the relationship.

[Sparkie460]

If you're not comfortable doing it then tell him you won't do it. You might end up enjoying it but that's something you have to decide.

[BobbieBoy666]

Don't do it.

[DextroShade]

Your guy is a cuck and a loser. Find someone better.

[BryanMoore]

if you're not comfortable with it, don't make yourself uncomfortable for his benefit. Only do things you want to do. There's probably a simpler way to engage in the idea as a first step before taking it to that extreme a level

[Soldieronmission]

Some fantasies are meant to just be that. Understand you want to please him but is that really what you are ok with doing? What if you don't like it or the guys end up being really rough and he's not there to help? You mentioned his friends liking the idea, he wants them to fuck you? There's a lot of variables in something like that and it can be tough too arrange as well.