Boyfriend wants me to be dominant?

My boyfriend and I recently became sexually active about 3 months ago and we are both each other’s first partner, so we are both inexperienced. He wants me to be dominant, but I have no idea what I’m doing! Any tips?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • As a more submissive guy who has dabbled with the kink lifestyle (never in person unfortunately) I reccomend the reddit pages r/gentlefemdom and r/rolereversal. They have plenty of great ideas and posts. Also from a sub/dom relationship you need to talk about what the other wants. You have to establish what the sub wants, likes, is ok and not ok with. In actuality, the sub should over all be in control because they establish the boundaries for the dom to work in.

  • Does he want you to dominate all the time sexually or switch?

Most Helpful Girls

  • If he's a first timer it might well be he's feeling a bit daunted by what's good and bad so he's hoping for guidance.

    Figure out what you want and just instruct him what he has to do. In time you'll get the hang of it.

  • Wrestle him down, pin him on the bed, and have your way with him ;)
    That's what I always do to my boyfriend :D

    • Thank you for MHO

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  • Tie him to the bed, tease him, then have your way with him.

  • Talk to him about it. What kind of domination he wants from you? Then search it on google, watch videos and go by trial and error method.

  • Sure I have advice.

  • More dominant... how. I mean his dick is still going to be inside you, so... he's still in charge. I've never understood this type of mindset.

  • Handcuffed him to the bed
    Buy a strapon and a whip
    Boss him around
    Make him wear a Chasity belt
    Make him lick your boots

  • Choke him

  • If you want to, then be dominant.

  • Try Google together for some ideas that you're both comfortable with and have fun practicing them

  • Tell him what to do, like tell him to undress while you watch. Then push him down onto the bed and get on top of him or sit on the edge of the bed and tell him to get on his knees and give you oral.

  • It's more about your overall comfort. You tell what you want him to do. And what you want to do. And go for it.