Boyfriend wants me to flash my family and pretend it’s a accident?

My boyfriend said it’s his fetish for me to do that so I told him that if he wants me to do that then he should do it first. Am I wrong for saying that?
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Superb Opinion

  • It may be his fetish, but you shouldn't do it. If it's his fetish he should flash his own family. He may be trying to pressure you to flash your family so they will disown you so he will have control over you.

    • He’s not pressuring me it’s like weird funny to me I just didn’t know if I was weird for saying it back to him

    • It wasn't weird for you to say it back.

    • Thanks jsut didn't know if I would be weird one if he did it

Most Helpful Guy

  • He wants to fulfill his dumb fetish at your expense. It is like, why on earth would you want to flash your family anyway? If he presses you further for this, I'd say dump his sorry ass. Sorry for being so blunt but he doesn't sound like he is playing with a full deck.

    • He’s not pressuring me. I told him a funny story about how I accidently did one time and he said that’s hot

    • Ah OK... If he isn't real serious about it...

Most Helpful Girls

  • Only do what you are comfortable doing. It seems a bit strange to me, but people have allsorts of different fantasies. Perhaps it is best kept as a fantasy that you talk about in the bedroom but don’t actually do

  • You’re not wrong but I feel like if you’re not comfortable doing it (which would be completely understandable), then don’t do it. Either way, I don’t think you should do it.

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  • I think it is best to leave that request alone.

  • Um, some fantasies are better left as a fantasy.
    Depends on your family or anyone really.
    If they are really uptight, a flash might be a problem later. If the family feels that you did it on purpose, it could be a real issue for you.
    So, fetish or not... I would advise against. Plus, if he flashes, what is he going to do? Drop is pants and underwear in the kitchen accidently?

  • Your boyfriend is a weirdo

  • Just don't do it, not to your family at least.

  • Just dont do it.

  • He should first.. or is he jus trying to tease his brother or something

  • Flashing in public sounds sexy. Flashing your family doesn't. I mean who's going to care?
    Your parents have already seen you naked and had wiped your ass.

    I say no. Flash his family. lol

  • Sounds dumb

  • Nope your right what did he say

  • You need a new boyfriend.

  • Your boyfriend is a dickhead

  • thats weird. be careful

  • have him go first

    • I did

  • I wouldn't worry he won't have the bottle

  • You dont have to do anything you are not comfortable with especially living someone else's fetish dreams. If he can't understand that and keeps forcing you, tell him to fuck off and leave him.

  • Why your family?
    That's not even cool or sexy, it's disturbing.

  • I say that he is a creep and you need a better boyfriend. Don't flash your family and don't try to get him to do something first to get out of doing it. As he may just do it.