Boyfriend wants me to remain naked all the time?

[Anonymous]

We have been together for 8 months now. My boyfriend has a high sex drive and he enjoys sex a lot. He always liked watching me naked and he used to draw my body and stuff. But lately he he's got this fetish of wanting ne naked all the time. He undresses me every time he sees me these days and after sex, takes my photos or draws me. Is this okay? And I can't stay naked all the time but he gets so passionate about me that I am unable to stop him. What to do?

[Anonymous]

It is completely your choice to get or be naked whenever you please. You don't have to be naked all the time. You can use it as an only when your good kind of deal or every now and then. But if you want to keep your clothes on it's your choice. Maybe make a compromise like " Nude Model Monday" where you do it for him every Monday. Or compromise and say underwear modeling. Challenge him to sketch you with clothes on.

[doetrioux]

Wait wait wait. He takes pictures of you? On his phone? And you consent?

I could be misreading... but if I'm not, in any case, if you don't consent to that, then it's not okay. You're going to have to put your foot down and say it's not okay. If he doesn't listen, then you're going to have to make the tough call whether or not you want to remain vulnerable, or you want to break up with him.

[anonman32]

he draws her also that means he is an artist, the photographs are probably made in an artsy way.

[doetrioux]

@anonman32 Here's my perspective. What you just said, I fully agree with. But if that isn't actually the case, I just wanted to share my opinion on it, if that makes sense. Like he could easily be taking photographs in an artsy way, but I think the asker should make sure of that too. You know, to eliminate any suspicion that it's not okay. (I could have also misread, like I said in my opinion).

[anonman32]

she could just get copy right on them, then he could do nothing with them she does not want to.

[doetrioux]

@anonman32 I agree, that would suffice too.

[Chloe86S]

Put your clothes back on if you want to. He can't force you and you have to show him that there are boundaries. Fair enough if you are happy to do what he likes, but think of the long-term effect and how you may possibly feel about this situation in the future.
It's nice that he likes you so much, but make sure that he is being legit with those photographs!

[Anonjane83]

Whoa, well express how u feel. If u cares about you then he would respect your boundaries. Maybe make a compromise for naked time. Like a set time or duration of naked time. Also now would be a good time to also express any fetishes u might have... that way he gets his and u get yours. But definitely talk to him if ur feeling uncomfortable or uneasy.

[jesshkah]

Tell him to stop? It's your body and if you want to keep your clothes on every once in a while it's not a huge unreasonable thing. It's okay if you think it's okay. It's okay if you're comfortable and happy with it and don't feel pressured to do something you don't want to do.

[Cmasterson]

If you're unable to stop him thats a serious problem and means he has no self control therefor could potentially put you in a bad situation.. I would tell him you understand he's passionate about it however you will not remain naked all the time if you don't want to.

[Sara413]

That's not normal... is he really controlling about it? I don't like that he wants to take pictures of you naked all the time. It seems very over the top and obsessive. Not healthy.

[KrisPW]

If it's not a problem for you, then why not excite him like that. Just let him know that there are some times you just won't and leave it at that.

[Dolphingirl123]

If you are uncomfortable or unable to stay naked, I would suggest having a talk with him about his fetish, and see what can be done. Maybe you being naked is negotiable.

[Katie1964]

Go with it. Hubby back when we were dating always wanted me nude as well when we were alone or with friends who were comfortable being and being around nudes. 25 years later he still does, after a while you get used to it and won't want to wear clothes either.

[modeve]

Depends upon your own liking/disliking. I personally prefer to stay all the time nude, so my hubby.
As regards taking pics, if you don't like, tell him frankly. Again, I don't find any thing objectionable. We take each others' nude pics and delete after enjoying a couple of days, for fresh.

[abundantlyrich]

Say no. Or leave him.

[Katie2244]

It sounds very possessive and controlling. If you say no to anything he should respect that and leave it be.

[pooper89]

Sounds like it's a possessive/controlling issue, as someone else said. Set your boundaries. If he doesn't respect you then maybe you should rethink your decision to be with him.

[Titanic1912]

Try taking a shower or a bath with him! Do somethings that you two enjoy doing together naked! But make sure that only you two know about it!

[angelfromsky]

Taking photos is creepy

[anonman32]

how is this a fetish?

[Dantheman101]

I would love to knock on your door

[dfindley12]

i think thats adorable, if i had a man so passionate about my body like that then i would feel beautiful

[Anonymous]

Wait... im not your boyfriend. who is this man? JK. Honestly though, if you dont want to do it then match his passion with your views against doing this all the time. Relationships are compromise

[Anonymous]

What do you want to do?

I don't find it that odd he likes it.