Boyfriend wants to do sph ( small penis humiliation) is that normal?

My boyfriend has a small dick n he recently got into sph porn and wants me to do it to him. I know guys get turned on by it. he's always asking me to comment on his size n stuff. Is this normal for couples? Has anyone done it n what did you specifically do? Cause he's suggested some weird shit? What is the turn on for guys? Should I try it?
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  • The definition of normal is "being usual, typical or standard; not abnormal." Men having a small penis likely isn't normal due to it being less common than men with average sized penises. In addition to that, because people typically don't enjoy being humiliated, small penis humiliation likely isn't normal. It also isn't likely to be socially acceptable either, meaning that a person admitting to being interested in it could potentially be ridiculed by many people. However, normality is subjective and people have their own views of what is considered "normal" or "abnormal." Instead of worrying about what others might consider normal, determine if it could potentially harm others. Considering that small penis humiliation doesn't threaten other people's well-being and that the humiliation turns him on, no reason exists not to do it if you're interested. That's entirely up to you and other people's opinions shouldn't matter if you truly want to try it. Personally, I wouldn't do it. Not only would I not want a guy with a dick small enough for him to want humiliation from it, but I also don't get off from making fun of people's birth traits that they can't control, whether they want it or not. If anything, it's more sad than kinky. I'm more turned on by having a dick inside me, not by making fun of it.

  • I’m not into humiliation so not sure how to guide you other than to follow his lead or do some research online. Take it slow only do things you are comfortable with.

    • I've watched some sph porn n its weird. He asked me to show people pics of his dick.. He likes the reaction or something

    • Yeah you’d have to find an audience for that though. Most people wouldn’t care enough to even reply

    • I agree... He is extremely tiny , so why would he show people?

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  • He's so ashamed of his cock size that he thinks that is the only way that he can have a relationship.
    I'd say it's "common" but not normal.
    It happens so much it could be seen as normal but you can see how that's bad...

    He's basically forcing himself to be a masochistic...

    If you care for him and don't mind a small cock, do you can be happy too... find other ways...

    Find other tricks... my friend with a small cock said this, "its not the size it's how you use it"

    There's whole race of men with small cocks who's figured it out...



    Or I could be wrong and maybe he actuality likes it.

    He has a rare chance to be formed by a female in a way that doesn't take from her femininity... maybe not go full blown humiliation but tease him about it or roleplay or something...

  • sph is a spin off of dominatrix fetish. it is a rising fetish in porn over the last 10 years or so. because the porn industry has been really pushing the girls only like. "above average size cock" thing for about that long. also over the last 10 years there has also been a rise in cuckhold porn. which is pretty much another fetish that is based on the same idea. humiliation of guys with below average and average size cocks. expect cuckhold takes it to the next level. when she pretty much sleeps with other guys. with her spouse being ok with it and sometimes watching it all go down.

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  • Absolutely, he is ito humiliation... and humiliation turns him on

  • Presumably it isn't normal since most guys don't have small dicks, but it seems pretty harmless to me if you're both OK with it.

  • SPH is a very common fetish. I have been married for 26 years and share all my kinks with my wife as she does with me. It's always important to support each others fetish and try it out at least! I've even spoken with well endowed guys that want to be humiliated. I'm 4.5" too by the way

  • Make it a "role play". You are the desirable gal all the guys want. He is the guy stuck with "Junior". Play along if he wants to - insult his tool.
    These will get you started - - -
    "You want me to suck your d - - k? I can't even FIND it!
    "Why should I waste my time with this- this - this, oops, er wait, I lost it again."
    "Maybe if I water it , it might grow!"

    From a practical side, just as he's ready to have an orgasm, shove a baggie of crushed ice behind his scrotum!

  • What is sph?

    • Small penis humiliation

    • Besides laughing at it what did they do

    • a lot...

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  • no because if you get into an argument and he's going to say that this is how you truly feel and probably are looking for something better there may not be a good idea in my opinion. She's got to hang up about it

    • I meant to say has a hang-up about it you need help or suggestions can always DM me

  • Yes try it you might like it, if need advice on it pm me.

  • Yeah, especially online, with cam girls

  • What u did at last?

  • I am hearing it for the first time, I don't think you should do this.

  • I think your boyfriend is Jerk, sensational kiss is the best way to turn on your partner

  • If it make you both happy... go for it

  • Dump that niggah

  • Ya why not do it I've always enjoyed it