Boyfriend watches lesbian porn with me but I can't make him watch gay porn, is it wrong of me to try to get him to watch it with me?

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Boyfriend watches lesbian porn with me but I can't make him watch gay porn, is it wrong of me to try to get him to watch it with me?

b_lova · Accepted Answer

Yes and no. If he has already tried it but finds it disgusting then yes it would be wrong because he simply doesn't find it sexually appealing and since porn is about getting turned on then you would be doing the opposite for him.

Often as teens, we guys are taught that girl on girl is sexy but enjoying two dudes screw each other makes you gay too. He maybe rejecting the idea because of his own insecurities concerning his sexuality, but that is just a guess. You should ask him, but be delicate because you could stir a hornets nest.

I will also add, as a guy who went through a curious phase in his younger years and had sex with a few guys in his early twenties only to realized he prefers girls, gay porn does nothing for me. I love the curves of a woman too much and since porn is about the visuals watching two guys does nothing for me.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

It's not a good idea to try to make someone do something they don't want to do. If you like watching gay porn and he doesn't, just watch it on your own, and enjoy.

Maybe you can compromise. Ask him to go down on you while you watch gay porn. Tell him that really turns you on.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No your so right to want it really soon he will ask for a 3 some with your friend and really you will wanna leave caus he won't even let you enjoy what you like!

He will get worse and be so selfish just look at the guys on here! They ignore what ever we say or want for their horny fantasy!

End it before you get more hurt and he asks for another girl and you feel like trash and were never enough for him!

SnowedIn · Answer

Wrong to try? No. But accept his no each time. Don't force.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

If he's made it clear he dosen't want to watch it then you shouldn't be pushing it

Alex-Snow · Answer

He should chill. If it turns you on he should be there for you. How is your sex life with him otherwise?

jeremy_09 · Answer

I will watch a guy fucking a girl but I won't watch gay porn. Tell him you don't like lesbian porn if you don't want to watch it.

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

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And I watch both Lesbian all girl action and gay all boy action. 💕💕💕💕💕💕

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DextroShade · Answer

If he's not into it he's not into it.

Kinkyhubby · Answer

How about strap on pork where the girl use a strap on and pegs the guy?

jahaims · Answer

That depends on if you are attracted to females or not. If he is straight and you are bi then asking him doesn't make sense

Shamalien · Answer

Fucking ew

Nigjt · Answer

Not if he is into it. God Bless

In_Trance · Answer

All you can do is try

2021biguy · Answer

It's not wrong, try to get him to watch it if that makes you horny.

nudeNhorny · Answer

just like you watch with him he should watch with you

EaterPeter · Answer

Wrong

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Fuck yes... barf

Talksik6 · Answer

No you should keep trying to get him into it. Finger him

negrl4a69 · Answer

Who the fuck wants to watch gay porn? Only gay guys

Darkgable29 · Answer

Most guys get turned on by lesbian porn because their manhood is not threatened. Watching gay male porn is different because of the sex involved. Not so much regarding oral but intercourse. It's all about the individual.

Anonymous · Answer

Both forms of porn are detrimental and anyone encouraging a partner to watch any of that is asking for serious trouble. Since it has been so normalized people have been taken in by it. It has subliminal programming and opens up the person to repetitive sin which in turn has an impact on your entire life and future. It programs men to invite homosexual thoughts and women lesbianism ones, regardless of what type they are watching. It is low vibration and if you are encouraging another to watch it then you are doing a disservice to them and their soul..

A lot of the people in porn come from abused backgrounds and others are no longer alive... is that what you want to be getting off to?

Anonymous · Answer

Seems fair to me and you are not wrong.

Anonymous · Answer

Because straight men hate to look at gay men having sex with each other !!

Boyfriend watches lesbian porn with me but I can't make him watch gay porn, is it wrong of me to try to get him to watch it with me?

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