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Sexual Health Boyfriend won't cum in my face?
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After 3 years of being with my boyfriend, I decided to try spice things up. So after giving him oral sex, and he was about to come in my mouth, I told him to cum at my facr instead. He was shocked and closed down immediately. Later he told me to never ask him that again, that its for "sluts" only. Is this true? When guys cum on a girl's face, does that mean he has no respect for her?
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17 51I would prefer to cum in her mouth. It's sexier. But, if she wanted me to cum on her face occasionally, I would have no problem with it.
I would just explain to him that you are obviously not a slut because you are just with him and that it is something you thought he would enjoy.
I am surprised he would put it that way... he could have been a little nicer about it!
Some guys dont feel comfortable doing it to girls they care about because they see it as degrading.
Other guys just see it as fun and would have no issue doing it.
No, he has some sort of hang up about it. You two need to discuss why he feels this way. It could point to larger issues.
I guess it's good he doesn't want to "degrade" you, but cumming on someone's face isn't degrading at all really... if you want it I don't see how that is degrading. I thinks it's SUPER hot
it s only degrading if you don t enjoy it
I wouldn't say it's for sluts only, its good to tey new things but maybe he thinks it would be disrespectful to do that to you
Explain him WHY you wanted it, what feelings arise in that situation.
Bare you soul thus.
Maybe because He doesn't like it.
Some guys don't want to do it and will never do it.
Eh I wouldn't be comfortable doing that either.. It feels degrading to me and I wouldn't want to do that even if she's the one who wants it. It's probably annoying to clean up too. Meh I don't think it's for "sluts" though.. I hate that word.
I think it would totally depend on the individual guy. I have immense respect for my girlfriend, but if she wanted me to come on her face I would.
I don't think so, I mean it's not as respecful probably, but, it's not respectless, so there you go that's my answer
Your boyfriend is in the wrong. How could he not want to do that? That's you showing submission and love. Sounds like to me he's just trying to cum in your mouth?
He sees you as marriage material, mother of his kids etc. don't blow it, lol.
I don't feel it needs to be degrading.
As I could cum on a girl anywhere and say a few choice words that would imply I'm degrading her.
Not sure why he shut down and I'm pretty bummed for you!
I'd of let it rip ;) haha
Yeah but for mouth isn't lol our boyfriend is delusinal lmfao
Yeah that's pretty slutty, I wouldn't do that either
no it just means he is a prude
lol boyfriend is an idiot
No, I respect girls that are more open minded more than anything