I've dated bi girls, and I too am fine with them playing with other girls (but not with other men). But, yes, there are certainly men who think that ANY sexual contact outside of the couple is wrong and bad and a betrayal. This is the kind of thing that you need to talk about BEFORE you commit to a relationship - you can't just make assumptions.
Relationships are like buying a used car: it's very easy to buy something that LOOKS good on the outside but has major problems that you can't easily see, but once you buy it, it's now YOUR problem. If you don't bother to open the hood or crawl under and find the problems, you shouldn't be shocked or upset when you learn that you didn't get what you hoped to get. You can't be lazy and just hope for the best, you have actually do the work in order to have a good outcome.
People that want exclusive relationships are not compatible with bisexual people. that's all there is to it. The bi person will always feel like they are missing something and the straight exclusive person will feel like their SO wants to cheat on them.
I could never have imagined wanting a threesome! Turns out I was very wrong. I discovered that with the right rules and another woman that I am comfortable with... turned me right the hell up to high to watch him fuck my friend. he's not so comfortable with me doin her husband but thats okay with me. Key thing is communication... if he's not comfortable with the idea dont try and force it on him cause it could destroy your relationship. But get him on board and man can it heat things up!
It’s the same thing. Not every guy wants it. You should work on changing your values or you won’t have any meaningful relationships that make it the long run. You’ll just have a bunch that center on sex.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!No it's not what every dude wants. But if you want to be able to have sex with others you both are obviously not compatible
When it comes to threesomes, I think they’re more fantasy than anything else.
Yeah I’m starting to realise that
If you love him you’ll forget about the threesome idea
Yeah, that means your boyfriend isn't a cuck. Be glad he's that way. Personally, if my own girlfriend asked that in a serious manner or was serious about it, then I'd be extremely turned off by it, even at your age.
Threesomes are fairly fucked up, you cannot have a real relationship with a another person and participate in a threesome.
Many people do
By what standard are you measuring real? If being married and in love for many years and raising kids together, what exactly are you aiming for that's better? This is like saying you can't be in a real band and play The Legend of Zelda at your live shows, or read fanfic and consider yourself a grad student. What a childish and fussy way to live.
He doesn’t have the equipment to compete with a woman. He’s afraid you’ll like sex with her more than him
Threesomes are awesome, but I guess I can see why he doesn't want to do one. Might just think you'll like women more than him.
It's exactly the same thing. It's cheating. If he dosent agree you have to drop it, or end relationship
I'm not interested in threesomes
Really? I think it’s more common than people think?
I don't know how common they are, I just have no interest in them.
I mean the fact that men do not want them is more common than many women realise
Hell no it's not what any normal man wants. He should have picked a healthy woman in the first place. That's just gross af.
Now you know that not every guy wants the same things. Out of curiosity, why do you feel that you having sex with another woman is different from him having sex with another man?
Maybe he wants a committed relationship not something out of porn.. additionally regardless of your sexuality. you have a boyfriend, sleeping with someone of the same sex or opposite sex who is not your boyfriend is cheating. If you can't deal with that, you need to find someone else so he can move on to someone better.
He says I’m the best
How is that confusing. If my girlfriend asked that I would say fuck no! I think he is not poly with relationships. Just 2 people, a couple. If you dont like that and have sex with another girl that would be cheating.
I can understand why, a lot of guys are uncomfortable when there are 2 guys. It seems to work better with 2 girls...
Ahh interesting. Sorry to hear that.
I know me too
What kind of threesome are u wanting?
FMF. And the problem is that he has had them BEFORE!! So I know it’s not because he’s “inexperienced” or whatever.
That relationship won't work then cause you can't turn off what you feel and he probably knew you was by going into the relationship what's gonna happen is your gonna end up cheating on him. End it move on find you someone your more compatible with
He probably see it as cheating or thinking you are cheating on him with another woman and now you wish to include her in y'all activities
So either break up or grow up
Growing up is not an option
Then you're too immature to be dating in the first place
Is there an third alternative?
Maybe he loves u and is affraid u will like that girls more then him
I think that’s what he’s worried about
Why pushing him then?
Why are people assuming I’m pressuring him?
In guys dream - threesome with another woman always focus on pleasuring the guy
In reality - most threesomes turn the woman into a lesbian and completely kicking the man out
At least you didn't suggest BBC cuckold
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