Boyfriend won’t let me fuck another woman?

He knows I like women as well and recently we spoke about me having sex with another woman but he won’t let it happen. He also doesn’t want a threesome with me and another woman. But I can’t stop thinking about it. Should I do it but not tell him about it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • So, what is the actual point of being in a relationship with someone if you’re just going to fuck other people anyway? This has always confused me. If you want to fuck whoever you want, whenever you want, why even get into a relationship in the first place? Nothing wrong with wanting to fuck people you are attracted to, but it just seems like there would be a lot less drama if people realized they were attracted to a lot of people and just chose to stay out of relationships.

    • Hook ups with the same sex shouldn’t be a big deal

  • I’d tell him you want to experience, if he doesn’t let you then still experience then tell him you can split if he can’t accept it. I would love the idea if my partner asked me.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Cheating is cheating, even if it's with another woman.
    So what you're really saying is "Boyfriend won't let me be unfaithful even though I want to"
    Let the level of insanity that you wrote sink in.

    • He also doesn’t want a threesome so he’s not trying to make me happy

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  • Doing it anyway would be cheating. Look at it from his perspective if you can, could he do that with another dude? He just seeks monogamy.

  • You are an idiot

    • I always thought men fine it hot

    • Smh.

  • Of course not if it's that important to you than you should probably end your relationship that way you can do whatever you want

  • You two should break up. He’s monogamous and you’re not. You two have a huge difference in relationship. values.

  • You should probably just respect your boyfriend's wishes. If he comes around to the idea, then great, but if not: it's not hard to have a little self control.

    • It’s not about self control. It’s more about the fact that I really want it

    • The self control part comes in when you deny yourself of something you really want out of the love and respect you have for your boyfriend.

  • I don't see how you can possibly have a successful relationship with this man. He is obviously monogamous in his thinking. You appear to be polyamorous and really don't care about his feelings. You don't deserve him.

  • No. Let your boyfriend fuck your mom.

    • How does that help anyone in this situation?

    • It doesn't help, but it's less worse.

  • You should leave him before you hurt him. when a guy really loves you he doesn't want to share you with anybody even if it is a woman.

    • That’s no fun

    • I've actually been in a similar situation where a girl I was dating and I kinda liked, wanted to see me with her friend, who I was actually kind of already attracted to... So of course I cashed out.. twice and bounced the next week.

    • I just figured if I don't do it someone else will and we just can't have that.

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  • Trolling question
    Anons always ask some unrealistic bullshit

    • If you say so 🙄

  • I would've let you bring her and i could've fucked both of you

    • He’s doesn’t want any threesome at all

  • Hmmm go do it, but never tell him!! You have only one life to live! Don't let it go

    • That’s what I was thinking

    • Yep why not! If i were him I'll accept threesome! Why he don't accept it?

    • I don’t know why he won’t. He’s had threesomes in the past but he won’t have them with me

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  • No, don't cheat. Guys are usually okay if their str6gf goes with another woman because they still provide the sex and romance. If you may actually fall in love it makes sense why he's against it.

  • how about leave him since you clearly don't love him enough to stay faithful

    • I can’t the sex is really good

    • then stfu and stay faithful

  • Secret relations with a woman for sex purpose may cause unpleasantness between you and your boyfriend.

  • No, that is cheating.

  • Unless you're an asshole then no don't do that

  • Always be honest! Don't go beind peoples back... One day you will regreate it.. Or instantly