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Boyfriend won't let me go down on him?

We've been together for 4 months and we are both 19. He has gone down on me 8 times now and he won't let me go down on him. He says not to worry about it. It makes me feel bad if he's going down on me and I'm doing nothing in return. Last night he went down on me and I came really hard and I started to take his pants off, he tried to stop me but I just kept going and then he pushed me off and ran out of the room. He gets hard when we're making out and stuff and he's definitely not small, if you are thinking that's the problem. I honestly don't know what to think. He won't talk to me about it, so what am I supposed to do? I'm pretty sure I'm his first girlfriend. Could he just be nervous? What could it be.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I am 36 years old & have never heard something like this before. Something Is not right here.. Perhaps he´s been sexually abused…I think he Is scared or embarrassed about something and you need to have a sit down when you are not having sex to talk. Tell him that honesty Is the core in every relationship and that he hurt your feelings by not telling you why he does not like It. Tell him that It Is okey to not like certain things. Ask him whats happening inside his mind when you suck him. Ask him to tell you what he think Is the reason for his feelings..

  • This is unusual but not unheard of. Get him away from the sex, maybe out over an intimate drink. Ask him how he feels about your sex life together and then tell him how you feel. Tell him you're not trying to go down on him out of a sense of obligation but that you want his cock in your mouth, deep in your mouth and you're not going to stop until you get it, over and over. Then sit back with an expectant smile on your face and wait. No more talking until he responds.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Just talk to him about it and tell him you really want to go down on him, not to return the favor but 'cause you'd live to do that. Maybe that way he'll want to have you down under. And believe me he'll love you to be down there once he experience that sensation. Good luck and enjoy it. Lol.

  • He's likely nervous or feels like you wouldn't enjoy it. Tell him how much you'd like to explore and see how he reacts, but take it easy! :}

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  • Well you will be extremely unlucky to meet another man like that that's for sure! if you do that is, most men i know love receiving oral. goodluck :)

  • Maybe you have braces?

  • this is the first I heard on GaG. lol. maybe he's ashamed of something, because... well why the hell not?

    • Ashamed of what though? If his package isn't small, what is there to be ashamed of?

    • its got to be something. maybe he has a problem or something he considers a defect?

    • or he really just doesn't like blowjobs.

  • There could be problems with bis penis, he might mit want you to know about. Phimosis for example or maybe he thinks he is small (even if he is not).

  • Probably has an STD...

    • I'm the first girl he's been with...

    • You sure about that? lol

  • He's probably really nervous.

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