Boyfriend would rather play ps4 than talk with me?

[Anonymous]

He complained that I feel more like a roommate than a girlfriend... but I do his laundry and cook and love on him. Everything. Last night he wouldn't have sex with me because we had no condoms then asked me to suck him off. I said hell no. he wanted to masturbate together I also said no to that because I don't want that I want sex. So today I guess he's mad? Then to make things worse he didn't even go get condoms... so I again don't get anything and he's ignoring me.
He comes home and jumps right on the PlayStation and ays all night. He hasn't said a word to me. Seems to me like he's more of the roommate.. I play games too but instead of us aging together he just plays alone. Then gets mad that I don't want to watch him play games when I can go entertain myself.
I don't see how I can make him feel less like a roommate when he's refusing to touch or talk to me... and lately he's been quiet I try to start conversation and he just ignored me or won't say anything. And he does that when things are good... I don't get what his issue is. he wasn't always like this until last week.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

I think he want you to be more open minde, from what i see in the text, no sex if you guys don't have condoms (that is a big minus), no Blowjob option, not even masturbating togeder, that sound like shit for me.
Your friend is way more patience then me for keep been whit you, but i think he expect you to be more open minde when it come to sex.
Doing the house work and play some video game i will olso feel like i'm whit my roommate.
Try to have more option for the future.
He ask you for blowjob, you say NO (all man will get mad)
He ask to masturbate togeder, you say NO (again, another option another refuse)
If he need to have all the time condoms for you 2 to have sex then in the days when you don't have to much or don't have at all it meen will be a problem day.
Even you you take the condoms all the time and never forgot, the situation of your sex life seem to be a boring one

I will not stay a second whit a girl who say NO to one of my sugestion if we are togeder.

[havingfun101]

I don't bother with women; they're boring and needy, less intelligent and greedy. I don't play video games anymore, but I used to. Marriage, cohabitation and childbirth are at all time lows, so there's that.

[Truthatanycost]

Why don't you play video games anymore? in moderation they can be great fun. There is a freeware game called Renegade X where teams organize attacks against each others base.. great fun.

[Asker]

@Truthatanycost I play games daily

[havingfun101]

@Truthatanycost Video games are far behind real life, so I just chose non-virtual alternatives to simulations. One may only gain so many skills from a simulator, after that, it's just a manifestation of escapism. We get what we deserve.

[Tamera952]

Sounds like there's a lot more going on. Sounds like there's a lot of non-communication, projection, assumption, and passive aggressiveness going on. Instead of saying what you mean, saying what you want, and saying how you feel, in the moment - when it counts the most. It takes practice, and may seem scary, but there's no guessing games or beating around the bush.

[centerline]

if he isn't willing to put in the slightest effort to satisfy your needs, one of which is simple conversation, then he isn't worthy of your time...
there are a lot of guys out there who would be more attentive to YOU, and you need to find one... thhe guy you are with is dragging you down and holding you back... he either needs to step up and act like the man you need him to be, or he needs to go...

[DreamCatchcer]

I'll talk to you

[Dave31989]

you live with your boyfriend, unmarried?

no wonder he feels like you're more of a roommate than a girlfriend

[Asker]

I've lived with several men. Honestly never heard a guy say that til now.

[Dave31989]

Just sayin'

[Valnac]

He’s a whiney little boy, kick him to the curb and get yourself a man that makes a woman feel like a woman!

[Anonymous]

Awww... maybe he isn't sexually mature yet.

[Asker]

He's in his 40s he better be... actually no you could be right!