Boyfriends penis is too short to reach my vagina?

[StormMistress]

I’ve never had this issue before but my boyfriend is on the smaller side penis wise and combined with his heavier weight (Stomach droop) it makes sex somewhat difficult. Like it’s really hard to get a position where he can get his penis inserted in my vagina.

What are solutions to this? Are there positions that can make it easier for him to get inside me? I’ve tried Missionary, Cow girl, reverse cow girl. No luck. I can maybe get the top inch in at most but it slots out very easily when I move.

It’s a little disappointing to be honest :( I don’t want him to feel bad either but I can’t figure out a good solution outside him losing weight which I don’t want to force on him.

[Jaarraduun]

I hate to say it, but he probably would need to lose some weight around his midsection. As you mentioned him being on the smaller size, I assume that means he's around 4-5 inches, give or take. Because a guys pelvis area is naturally set inward, it can be a big issue sex wise if he starts getting a sizable stomach, as the overhang can do exactly what you described, which is block off access.

I would recommend to keep trying addition positions, such as you letting your lower half hang off the bed while he gets between your legs and can better control the angle of things.

Otherwise... The only other realistic option would be weight loss, which I understand not wanting to force on anyone. At the same time, it may not be the worst thing to discuss. As someone had to stop working out due to underlying health concerned, then started back up again on the very small amount I'm allowed to do, specifically to lose some weight, I would mind sharing what I know if it helps your boyfriend out long term.

[mstbooblover]

Did you try the scissor position? I don't see another position where the penis can really enter completely into the vagina. Just lay on your side with one leg uplifted. The guy then sits on your other on the bed stretched leg, and sure enough he will be able to enter the honey pot ;0)

In normal circumstances, with average sized guys I mean, that same side position is really enjoyable, and one I recommend, be it already because the clit gets within reach of both partner's hands. By the way, for my wife and me, this position was one of our favourites.

[StormMistress]

Ah ok I’ll try this one. See how we go.

[mstbooblover]

Best wishes girl. You keep me updated? I'm curious ;0)

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

The best solution is to break up with him and find a guy with a bigger penis. I don't understand why you would even want to date a man with a small penis. I just realized that you said he is just a little over 3 inches fully erect. That's ridiculously tiny. Why are you even with him? Penis size determines the level of pleasure that you experience during sex as well as the number of sex positions that you can engage in. If the penis is so small that he even has trouble penetrating, you're both practically wasting each other's time. You even said that you are disappointed, meaning that you do care at least somewhat about sexual pleasure. Every woman deserves to have a good time in bed. You're no different. Just dump him and find a bigger penis.

[Guffrus]

So all women deserve X but all men do not deserve X? Just kill yourself.

[stratford]

How did someone with such trolling skills make it to yoda status? Oh wait, I just answered my own question.

[StormMistress]

Well he is amazing in every other aspect. It’s not his fault and I just want him to be happy.

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

@Guffrus: "So all women deserve X but all men do not deserve X?" When did I say that? I'm simply saying she needs to do what makes her happy. His penis size is way too small and she is disappointed. It is simply best for her to find a bigger penis. I never said anything about what men don't deserve. However, they should also do what makes them happy. How can any man with a small penis be happy with a woman that is disappointed with his size? Kill myself? Why so hostile?

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

@stratford: What makes you think that I'm a troll?

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

@stormmistress: He can be a good friend then. I don't see why you have to have sex with him just because he's an amazing person and you want him to be happy. Do you think that he can truly be happy when you're disappointed with him? I understand you're trying to make it work, but it simply won't. It's like trying to put a screw in a big nut and expecting it tighten. It's just not possible.

[Guffrus]

Because one affects the other you fucking asshole. You can't on the one hand tell women that regardless of their status they should have an expectation of above X standard and then pretend with the other hand that you are not excluding all males who are below X.

[StormMistress]

But he loves me and I love him. He is great at giving me oral and sensual touching and affection. I really want a good railing but it’s not the end of the world otherwise. He could try a strap on or something?

[stratford]

If you truly need a good railing, I guess you only have two options, a penis extender, or turn him into a cuckold.

[StormMistress]

@stratford what’s a cuckold?

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

@stormmistress: A cuckold is basically a man that gets off on and/or allows other men to have sex with his significant other. In other words, stratford is suggesting that since your boyfriend doesn't please you in the way you want, it is best for him to allow you to have sex with somebody with a bigger penis, and basically let your boyfriend watch. If you ask me personally, I think it's weird and just emasculates men, but I try not to knock anybody else's kinks. I also think the same thing about giving men strap-ons, which is something you also suggested. A guy with a penis should never have to use a strap-on, that is, if you ask me. That's a great way to emasculate him.

[StormMistress]

That’s so odd. I’ve never heard of this kink. He’s very possessive and anti cheating though so I couldn’t do this to him honestly. It wouldn’t feel right.

[stratford]

@stormmistress let us know what you decide to do. I hope you get a good railing soon!

[CaGirl2023]

My suggestion is for you to be on top of your boyfriend and this position is easier for you and for him too. I mean to strap you legs around your boyfriend's pelvic area and then lightly allow him to enter your vagina at a slower pace. After he is inside you then he can go at a more faster thrusting inside you. Try that out and I think he will feel more comfortable. Try that technique out.

[MasterKS]

@cagirl2023 she already tried cowgirl and reverse one.

[MarkyMark77]

@cagirl2023 those seemed like solid ideas. have you ever been with a guy that was too small or?

[RoseySaraah]

So been there really sucks and there are a few things like a dick sleeve it gives him more length a little girth so he can reach you!

Is he good at keeping you happy with his hands? So bet those fingers feel better in you then him!

You love him and want him my ex wanted so bad to fill me but he could not. Was not the reason we broke up but bad sex did not help!

Few positions help mostly him joining a gym might!

[Huntingnfishin]

@RoseySaraah this is seriously that common a problem?

[RoseySaraah]

@Huntingnfishin from all the men asking her on kik yes! Also more people are fat which makes it worse!

[Hot_Mess_Express]

How long is his tongue 😉

[EricSummer]

Doggy style would normally the best choice there, though I cannot picture in my mind just now where his ventral obesity would go in that position. If all goes well it could rest on your lower back.

It's sweet of you to make such an effort with a guy who is not in shape. The obvious solution for most people would be to change the guy.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Never had that problem, my ex was extremely fit,

didn’t even know if such thing could be an issue.

Grab his ass and take him to the gym so you guys workout together.

[whirled_up_girl]

You mentioned missionary but have you tried folded missionary? It works best if you're flexible.

[Billlewis]

Have you told him about this?

[StormMistress]

I’ve tried but he’s already lacking in confidence and performance anxiety (I’m his first girlfriend) and if I let him know my thoughts he might feel even worse which I don’t want :(

[Billlewis]

I see.

[summiter]

Have you tried spooning him with him entering you from behind?

[StormMistress]

Yeah no luck. His stomach gets in the way.

[BoopBoopBeep]

if he's that fat, he needs to lose weight. If you care about him you'll see that happen because he's self-destructively large. I'm not going to rattle off all the known health consequences of that. If he was a junkie would you let him shoot up all the time or "force it on him" to get sober? This is no different. His drug is food.

[A_Bell]

He really should lose weight. That much weight is harming his health.

[jshm2]

Try 20mg of viagra to stiffen him up further and (hopefully) make him longer. Also, lay him on the floor, to get a better purchase on top of him. On a soft mattress he'll sink and you'll lose "length".

[Miah05]

Oh dear. I'm not sure. Never been wit someone too short.

But I'm sure there are postions that can help. Just keep exploring

[Bricealan]

I had a girl friend several years ago, that told me her and her prior husband had the same problem, at least as far as the huge, pot belly was concerned and she said he had to 'lean back' to get his belly back to get his penis in. I didn't ask about the length of his penis and she did not volunteer that information, but I know after reading your question that the same problem does exist.

I suppose the one practical way would be for him to lay in his back and his belly would not be hanging down, and in the way of getting his penis in.

After hearing and talking to some women, I know the small penis is a problem for some men, and one girl told me she could 'not even feel' his penis when it was in.

[RealMarek]

It sounds like his weight is extremely unhealthy. If you want him around for a long time, he needs to lose some weight. A great place to start is just getting his heart rate up into the cardio training zone for half an hour a day for five days a week. That’s really not that difficult and not much of a time commitment. He should use an elliptical or other low-impact machine because if he jogs while overweight it might hurt his knees. Once he is in better cardio shape, maybe after a month or two, he can try doing high intensity interval training. It really helps burn fat because it keeps metabolism elevated for several hours after the workout. There are low-impact HIIT routines that he can use until he loses enough weight for higher impact exercise.

[Nik1hil]

😔😔😔

[tfan1]

Penis sleeve?

[rienna888]

lol you're a very good girlfriend, yeah the only option is probably for him to lose weight or penis enhancement.

[Mansearching]

Its sounds like you've done all you can. Now its time that he puts on his big boy pants. You've got to get him to loose weight. Change diet and exercise. But tell him you'll do it too. Don't make him the only one. I'm sure you probably need to loose some weight and tightening up here and there.

Remember, signaling out one person's faults and not looking at yours is bad for the relationship.

I know I have to loose weight around my stomach. I 100% admit that. My fault that I'm out of shape. My girlfriend just loves me as I am.

I hope you love him as he is. Help him and join him to do this bc you love him just not for his penis.

[Huntingnfishin]

I think it's like for every 50 pounds over weight you are/you lose an inch down there

[NYCQuestions1976]

You might need to be direct and tell him that he needs to lose some weight. It'll be better for his overall health in the long run also.

[babyjjade18]

Time for a new man then

[Bigjake1995]

Omg lol 😂

[MasterKS]

@babyjjade18 ultimate solution! LOL